Gratitude,Gave me a sigh of Relief. 

Namaste Everyone, 

Every body nowdays talks about Gratitude.I used to think I am not successful in any possible sense..I am pretty average or may be below average..in everything I have..I am not  professionally successful..I belong to a normal family..I am not super talented or even talented in some sense.. I don't own a legacy or family fortune..What should I be thank

ful for??What is this Gratitude?It is the sense of being thankful or having a sense of appreciation for things we already have or given to us somehow..

GRATITUDE... If we start feeling it, Feeling it from the Heart ..Our own rage against our own life starts to calm down.

When Nothing Else seems to work..and We  are surrounded by darkness of Failures...We feel Lost..We feel failed.It really gives a sigh of relief...Like Feeling Freah air...Like feeling Rain..Like feeling waves  at a  Quite beach ..This can go to the extent that  the only thing thankful for can be ,"Being still Alive"..It gives us hope to somehow continue. 

I may sound little sarcastic ,sad or depressed which I am...but this tiny feeling of Gratitude is helping me to  continue and It is a fact ...at least for me.. 

Dear Readers ,try being thankful for tiniest things in your life that you really feel thankful for..and then just for a minute think of people that Even don't  have that..Suddenly things will start falling into place..You will start feeling hopeful that whatever mess is there in your life  that can be cleared..things will work out..It  is just a matter of time..

It  definitely makes us compassionate and fills us with empathy..It calms us and our disturbed mind because we start having the feeling that we also have  atleast something..

Some times we all are going to some phases in life where nothing much is in our hands..What else is our way out ..I myself used to get irritated, annoyed,sad and disappointed when nothing works out..Things get ugly..Be it in Relationships or in professional lives...But when We start looking  at a the thin yet bright silver lining around the dark cloud..

Dear Readers  ,I am not saying it is easy to see..But one thing that am sure is that It is there..But our disillusioned mind could not see it..or feel it..

It is definitely because of repeated failures at personal or professional fronts..but we  forget that Life Goes on..It doesn't not stop for us feeling sad about it..So why not look for things that make us feel alive and significant in some possible way..makes us feel happy..in what we really want to do and not we are forced to do... Such things exist in everyone's life .Some see it ,some don't..People who are able to identify the little little yet the most significant things in  life ,live life to the fullest and others just  kept complaining and simply  waited for life to just pass by..and expected miracles to happen..which never happen  and they  continue to live in their mindmade shells forever ..I have myself spent years in this mindmade shell of mine..And many of us still continue to do so..

Dear Readers, Please Don't waste your lives ,There is no age  or perfect timing for  making a fresh start...Just make a start ...

Why Everybody Is Faking Around?

Everybody is faking around….

Namaste everyone, 

What is happening all around us in terms of emotional turbulences is so detrimental that we all on day to day basis appear dissatisfied , disappointed and sometimes saddened as well..

Nobody appears  happy...Everybody  looks fed up, tired and lost in some sense..Everybody is so... so.. fed up but nobody wants to work on the solution..

"Everybody  is faking around...hiding their fears,  insecurities,disappointments, aspirations,weaknesses and many a times sadness...They pretend to be happy... Everybody is OK...but from  inside all are torn out.."

We all are stuck in the web of expectations ,some from others and some from our ownselves..When these expectations are somehow not met.. life and people around us stop making sense...

Dear readers,to move forward in life we have to stop pretending or faking ...We just have to first accept our own personality as we are, with no manipulations...We have to identify our own weaknesses and strengths.....We can not just fool around our inner own self..Because pretending something that we are actually  not can never take us anywhere we really want to reach....It may help to exist in society for some time..But with time everybody's true self  appears ...So why can't we always be what we really are..and Express what we really feel..So that relationships made and commitments done in every aspect  of life are based on purity and truth...thus are longlasting....

Dear readers,What others think of us should  no way bother us ,if we are  not insecure from within and our intentions are pure...Stop being the victim of your own assumptions about ourself from other's perspective...It does not matter at all...If you are true to yourself..

Try following things..

1.Be vocal about your feelings. 

2.Donot offend or abuse anybody in the name of proving your point..

3.Accept your weaknesses...first. 

4.Donot get affected by other people's comments or point of views about you..Be it positive or negative..

5.Donot seek approvals  for everything you do..

6.Own your actions..

7.Work hard on improving yourself and not on simply proving your point to others..

8.Do things that you yourself like or love to do and not to please others.

9.Donot forget to complete your responsibilities in the name of following your dream..

10.Donot lose hope if you get failures or harsh judgements from others .

11.Donot demean yourselves nor others by your actions or words..

12.Stop 

12.Be committed to yourself and your dream..

13.Donot be led by others point of view but you can take guidance..There is no harm in seeking help..But 100% dependence on others for everything is not acceptable..

14.Stop pretending..

15.Accept life as it is, donot jump to conclusions based on your fears and insecurities..

16.Always move forward,stop living in the past and judging yourself  on the basis of your past..

17.Help others in whatever possible way you can..

18.Distance yourselves  from all negativity be it about yourself or even other people.

19.Keep on improving your skill set..

20.Work  on self grooming and  self improvement..

Nothing is impossible, take the first step..Your pure commitment and hard work will guide you further..😇👍

 

 Why can't we agree to disagree??

Namaste everyone,

In our day to day lives,we have a lot of disagreements with people around us, be it our closed ones also but that noway means that we hate them as well..This thing or I should say thought is not as simple as it appears..

We usually mix disagreements with hate  and disrespect or sometimes even disregard for each other...but the thing is ,

If I like red and you like blue...It noway indicates that blue is  a  bad color and I should start to hate you ,because you donot like what  I like..This simple thought helped me identify a major reason that acted  as a deterrent in relationships...

As partners or as any two individuals it is a 100% possibility that our point of views can not fully match..We will  agree on somethings and disagree on others..We  actually fail to  respect or even recognize each other's opinions and try to force our's onto them...This forceful behaviour can last for sometime...but its not healthy,it's not legitimate.. It is in fact disrespectful and even sometimes disturbing for one of the partner and he or she starts feeling underconfident and insecure because their opinion doesnot matter and  even if they gather courage to express it ,It results in a rift or a bad fight or quarrel between the two individuals...

It is the  trait of some dominating individuals that they want their opinion only to matter without even giving slightest regard to what their partners feel and want to say..

To agree on each other's disagreements is not that difficult, if we  respect and trust each other completely..It is but obvious that one person's insecurities regarding disagreements on a particular thing results in a quarrel or  I should say some kind of rift between  the two individuals...

Dear readers,I personally feel we should give full freedom  to our partners to express themselves fully.. so that we very well know what is exactly going on in their heads and how exactly they are feelings..What is  our partner's view on a particular thing that affects our lives is definitely important..So how can we ignore it or even disregard it...One important point here is that if we are giving enough space to our partner's point of view and respect it ,the same behaviour is also expected from them as well...Because in relationships everything is mutual...The responsibility of the past ,present and future of a relationship lies on the shoulders of both the individuals and noway on any one of them...

I have seen a different  side of many people in relationships, because usually people fail to acknowledge or understand other person's feelings and fears...

Dear readers,Why can't we act as support system for our partners or for that matter everybody we come in contact with..

Always give enough space for even your naturally introvert or under confident  partner to flourish.. Act  as a positive support,be real and respectful....With unconditional support and love, you can definitely make your some how weak partner do wonders and achieve his or her dream..Be a constant support system...This is what is expected...

The irresponsible behaviour of one of the partner be like 

1.Taking the other for granted..

2. Misunderstanding  the other all the time..

3. Disrespecting  the other partner..

4. Occupying the personal space of the other forcefully..

5. Giving zero or very very little importance to other's point of view..

6. Prioritising yourself on your partner..

7. Giving high importance to your career and goals and giving  negligible importance to your partner's ambitions and regarding them as useless..

8. Not  trusting your partner..

9. Not  asking for your partner's choice or opinion or like or dislike..

10. Taking  decisions that affect both the partners without other's consent and sometimes even knowledge..

11. Forcing your superiority on the other in terms of finances,looks or any other stupid reason..

12. Using   your partner as a ladder for growth instead of a support system and even failing to recognize and acknowledge..

13. Making  fun of the weaknesses of your partner publicly instead of correcting him or her privately..

All the above mentioned acts  of  one of the partner result in resentment and in my personal opinion a kind of emotional abuse  people do to their partners..

Dear readers,Please accept your partners with their weaknesses and strengths..Create enough space for both of the partners to flourish and prosper in a relationship..Disagreements on things can not or I should  say must not be the reason of a failed relationship.. Disagreements are point of views..They are not judgements for parting ways..Opinion of both the partners should be equally valued..then only a  healthy relationship can survive the ups and downs of life..This is actually the only way out for the prosperity and mental well being of both the partners and for the success of the relationship as a whole..Think about it..🤔😊💞

Ordinary me...

Namaste everyone, 

I failed several times that too pretty miserably,I felt helpless ,I lost hope,I cried as well...But I realised even after this my dream is still the most important thing  for me..It is my identity, infact my dream is the only thing I proudly call as my own..I can not do without it..So I continued.. because this is the only way out...

"I waited for me , I did not come...After years, I came..Torn,Underconfident ,Insecure,purposeless.."

This was me ,years ago when I  knew something was really not right ,I was losing me ,My identity, My confidence..and still kept ignoring those very strong signals  of ever diminishing self worth and on the way I  kept compromising my self respect ,financial independence and confidence..for things..and people..and feelings that were obviously not long lasting..What was wrong with me...

Nothing  is forever.. Nothing is permanent, not even feelings or people very very close to us..Priorities change there is nothing wrong in it ,Problems  in relationships arise when it makes people to compromise their personal space ,value and financial independence. but still many people are somehow blinded by whatever  stupid reasons they give and finally end up broke both emotionally and financially..

Ordinary people find it extremely difficult to again even have a conversation with people whose true self has been shamelessly revealed.. This world ( our family ,our friends or any relationships we are involved in )  altogether suddenly become a totally different place if we fail to agree and adjust all the time...🤔🤔🤔🤔

Walking alone is not that bad,at least you need not seek approvals with each  forward step..There is no fear of judgements..You are 100% responsible for yourself and your actions...You are not dependent..You have your own pace and you need not be answerable to anyone..This is good..Really good...

Dear readers ,we ordinary ones were never that super talented, confident, outspoken or extrovert or even the lucky ones .We were the simple ,silly ordinary ones..I donot find it bad unless at some point of time we realise we  have to carve our way out in much much harder way then some others..( I am here noway demeaning the successful ones as I very well know everyone has their own share of struggles).

I am saying it's more difficult for ordinary ones is only because we ourselves spend years altogether only for the simple  realisation that our dream is also important and more importantly achievable...🤨🤔

 

Sometimes giving our best is not good enough..

Why giving our best is not enough??

Winston Churchill, one of the greatest statesmen of the twentieth century, once said, “Sometimes doing your best is not good enough.Sometimes you must do what is required.”

Namaste everyone,

Why our best is not good enough????...one of the most common trait of we ordinary people is that ki hum hamesha apna 100% dete hain, har choti se choti cheez main.. but for  most of the people  around us  it's just not enough...
Shayad  hamari unimpressive life ke efforts unko worth it hi  nahi lagte.. actually ab yeh sab soch kar muje yeh sab funny bhi lagta hai.. kyunki jitni energy  and effort  hum doosron  ke liy lagate hain uska kuch percentage  khud par laga dete and apne liy kuch karte,apne liye kuch time invest karte.. but nahi.. humein toh sabki fikar hai , bus khud  ki nahi.. 
Aisaa karte karte hum yeh bhool jate hain ki jab hum khud hi complete nahi.. how can we help and support  others..Hum kuch intellectuals, achievers or some kind  of business people nahi hote na.. and na hi kabhi kuch extraordinary  achieve kiya hota hai...and actually  jin  life ke contributions se money generate nahi hoti , duniya unhein importance  nahi deti and starts taking  them for granted.. and woh little tiny si tit bits  jo hum ordinary category wale log roz apni family and loved ones ke liye karte hain... nobody gives any importance...but kyunki hum ordinary  hain koi specific talent bhi nani hain..  but hamare apne log ,hamari family yeh bhool jati hai ki yeh life ki choti choti si cheezen hi humein karni aati hain.. aur kuch nahi..apni whole life yehi toh kiya hai..living for others .. aur kuch aata hi nahi.. par everyday hum apna best dete hain despite of being in bad mood or even being  ill..most of  the times nobody  even notices  and our best is not enough  for them...😒😒but now that we realise   all this ,we have to make a new beginning..😊😊
Look through  the following  post  to realise even our best is not good enough  but in that case also we can never  giveup on our responsibilities  and we will continue  to do what is correct and most importantly  what is required...
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/05/being-positive-or-being-responsible.html

Is love the only thing required for life??

Love and its importance in life.

Namaste  everyone,
This question  bothers me often that ,Is love the only thing required for life ??
Relationships that are only based on love..in real life may be able to survive for sometime and present a very good picture of life ahead..but  there are of course  many other aspects of life as well..which if ignored mostly result in failed relationships..
This is absolutely  true and everybody agrees with the fact without love there is no life . Any kind of human relationship can not even exist without love..but forgetting other aspects of a relationship like trust ,respect, care and of course finances  definitely  will lead us to a failed relationship.
Love is a real wierd feeling but nobody can live without it... I find it strange ,yet this is 100% true..We as humans want to be loved ,rather I should say it is not a want but a need like food ,clothing and shelter..
We all want to be loved especially  by people whom we love  a lot..Love makes us feel worthy and important. We feel secure ,we feel protected..we feel cared..this gives immense motivation to live...no matter what life throws  at us ..
Love is important,rather the most important driving force for simple ordinary people..because clearly we never had any personal achievements  or a successful  professional  life..all we have was love..nothing else..There is no doubt that we were loved by our family and loved ones..so that we were able to drag our rather purposeless  life  for all these years...love was the only strength  we had..love was  and is our  driving force...love protects us from a selfish world outside ,it protects us from being left alone in the crowd..it uplifts us when we are weak ,it gives us feeling of being wanted..because  we also love our family and loved ones as they love us...there is no doubt that love is everything..but is it good thing to keep on living  a dependent  and purposeless life only for love..Losing what we really are..or our identity for love is it worth it?
The answer is may be Yes for very rare individuals for initial periods..but as far as the reality check  of life is concerned  I feel  the answer is a No. Love is definitely  the foundation  of any relationship but  because of the absense of your own individuality and purpose  for life ,you won't  be able to survive  the ups and downs of life..because love does makes us  emotionally dependent  on others..to the extent that we start losing ourselves  and our identity  for the sake of love..and from there  Love the biggest gift of life starts to become problem..for which  ordinary people donot even have a solution..In course of time ordinary  people make themselves so so emotionally  weak and vulnerable that  they end up losing their  emotional  and sometimes  financial  independence  as well  only out of love..Then they can not see a way out  of God forbid..things do not go as expected in life.
Please ,dear readers donot lose your individuality  for love..we have to make ourselves rise in love but not fall..love has to be our strength  and not  a weakness..

Our children, our love , our strength, our support, our everything..

Namaste everyone,
My kids are my strength..my everything..everything of my life revolves around them.. I love them more than anything or anybody in this world and always will.. most of the ordinary people like me  have this mindset and we proudly accept we have it and will continue to do so all our lives..
Many times when we feel low ,rejected ,disappointed and worthless then   its  our children  that make us realise how important  we are for them.. atleast in  initial years of their lives..what a satisfaction  we get knowing that we are inevitable  for them.. they love us the way we are..they donot judge us for not having a professional  career or our achievements  in life ...this undoubtedly  makes us happy and we start feeling this is it ..  what else we need from life ,we need not do anything about ourselves.... 
We will continue  like this all our lives.." but is sab mei  hum yeh bhool jaate hain ki ,our own kids will also grow up ,they will be independent   and will be no more dependent  on us for everything..they will be separate individuals..with their own mindset and intellect  and of course  they will also get busy with their own lives , then what will we ordinary people do...we will have nothing at all.. for ourselves.. because we always lacked the spirit and enthusiasm to do something  for ourselves.."
If we don't focus on ourselves in initial years of our lives we won't be able to do it when we get middle aged or even old..and restarting will be difficult.. I am not telling impossible  but will be of course  more challenging.. so why not start today...we  should stop giving up on ourselves.. because we  are definitely not using our full potential , if we donot follow our passions..and do not even do things that really make us happy..
Some  people  also give this justification  that they are happy the way they are,doing nothing for themselves,living a monotonous  life..for others..but sooner or later by not grooming  ourselves we are actually not joyful and also cannot make others around us joyful.. that is the main reason most of the people tend to feel irritated ,tired and unhappy about their lives..so...please make the right move now..make a start in whatever possible way but do make a new start.. if a person like me can do,I am damn sure you all also can.😊😊😊

Loneliness.. how it feels..

Namaste everyone..
How lonely it feels.. sometimes..or many times.. when we just  look at ourselves..
Physically  we are surrounded  by so many people... especially our family ,our loved ones.. par pata nahi kahan se yeh weird  si akelepan ki bimari si lag jati hai..once we allow this feeling to sink in.. toh  what we  get  is a disillusion of a failed  life,without purpose bus chalte rahna, jeete rahna.... wohi repeated si zindagi..aisa humein bahut baar feel hota hai.. one of those low days.. hum aisa feel karte hain.. aur hum yeh samaj nahi pate ki yeh hamara mind kya games khelta hai humare sath..
muje iska reason  yeh lagta hai ki, hum apna poora time apni family mei invest karte hain every day and night.. aur is baat ko maan lete hain ki hamare bina unka kaam nahi chalega.. this is quite misleading..family ko hamari jaroorat hoti hai jaise humein unki.. but jab woh thode independent   ho jate hain.. toh humein laid back feeling aati hai..that further leads to  a strong feeling  of loneliness..that is why life ke har stage mei.. apne chote chote hi sahi, par apne passions ,interests ko jaroor jaroor....follow  karte rahna chahiye.. yeh humein ..bekar ki negative thoughts  se protect karta hai and moreover humein kahin na kahin ek sense of satisfaction  and  purpose bhi deta hai.. jo happy and confident  feel karne ke liye must hain. 
Apne aapko self depressing feelings se protect karna.. is a everyday task..aisa nahi hai.. once we do it and its done .... its a continuous process..it can happen only when we keep ourselves busy doing things we really feel happy about... but this by no way means ki hum apni responsibilties ko ignore karen..and ek selfish si life jeena start kar den...that will be a total disaster. when  we start ignoring our responsibilities life around us will be a mess... then sirf apni happiness ke bare mei soch ke life mei chalna, totally selfish ban jana...yeh for me is really unacceptable.. humein inner engineering karke khud ko enhance karna hai..this is to become  better human beings because  when we  feel happy and confident ... about ourselves , then only we are able  to make others around us happy.. and together we can make a family where our children feel happy ,emotionally strong and confident.. and further a society ,a country and a world... making little little contributions in our own possible ways...😊😊😊

Consequences of Financial dependence ..

Consequences of Financial dependence ..

Namaste  everyone ,
Today I felt insulted and offended  by the answer of my kid..he was  asked that,"What would he like to become  in future..??"
He simply answered,would like to be like papa.. "not like his mother why ??" 
The answer is  crystal clear  no body wants to live a professionally  failed live..I am not telling  this that a professionally  failed  life is a total failure, there are many other aspects also that qualify for a good purposeful  life..My kids love me but they donot want to be like me..because my job of taking care of them ,family and our house is quite insignificant  for a 10 years old..I am not angry with them.. but a strong feeling of  lack of purpose sinked into me..I was definitely  feeling depressed and of course  I didn't let  anybody know ,what I felt at that moment..
I am always of the opinion that nothing can be more important  for me than family and our loved ones..but professional  failure can not be ignored  altogether..years passed like this..when I was in my Twenties  I never wanted to do a job or have a career..
I now strongly feel and recommend  everybody I know, not to sacrifice or let go your professional  careers for anything..I know many a times circumstances can force us to do the same..but we should  restart as soon as possible..
Emotional as well as financial  dependence  can be nerve wrenching..Even if we are emotionally  vulnerable , having a personal financial  security can save us..In our society  also we have seen numerous examples of this..
I am not  talking here of failed marriages  or  any related things.. but here am thinking of how to deal with lack of confidence  and a feeling of low self esteem  that comes into play when we donot  have a running income or a career to pursue..
When I was thinking what wrong did I do to myself  or what happened in life ,a string of questions I myself didnot bother to answer ,keep pouring  into my mind.

1.When we have to  buy gifts for our family  especially  our  husband  by taking his money only.😏
One day my husband  said to my kids," Your mother can not afford to buy such costly gifts for you,its me who got all this for you.."
2.When ever I had to buy things for my  mother,  father ,brother ,sister and especially for my nephew and niece..I asked money from my husband..although he never refused ...
But now, "Connecting all the dots I personally  very strongly  feel this financial  dependency  is not good ,not healthy,it can be insulting..at times..that one single time will be enough  to destroy your self worth and confidence..
These things that I have felt  do not matter when everything  is going fine between  husband  and wife..but I know this can happen..to anybody..and all are not the lucky ones..
So we ordinary people will keep on waiting for these things to happen to us or do something  concrete  about this..choice is our own..
Why especially  ladies who are continously  facing domestic violence  can not come out of it because  they are not financially  independent, so that they can not carry on their lives with their kids independently  and are forced to stay because they donot have any money at all to sustain ...this is the worst case I am talking about..
What is the way out? The only way out is keep learning  and upgrading whatever little skills you have about any possible topic..keep improving it and turn it into a living..😊😊and I just want to assure you it's not impossible..

Dealing with Financial dependence on others.

Importance of financial independence in life.

Namaste everyone,
Over all those years of our pretty ordinary lives  we did not do anything for self development or anything more or less related to ourselves that was focused on us for our personal ,professional  and for that matter spiritual  growth..
"Hamara focus hamare upar kabhi nahi tha...bus family, family  and family ..we never knew or tried to know anything beyond that.. our lives appear complete...but never were..initially we donot realise.. but slowly gradually we come to know....ki kya kar liya humne apne sath.. kya ban gaye hain hum, emotionally to family pe dependency  hoti hi hai.. there is  nothing wrong in it.. family is our strength and support.. but jab  it comes to financial terms..not initially  but with  passing years.. we realise that humare paas apna earn kiya toh kuch bhi nahi hai.. over all those years apni sari energies family par laga di..but when it comes to our own bank balance .. we are a big zero.. "
Aisa nahi hai ki humein koi necessities  ke liye financial  crunch ho gaya hai or something like that.. but hum ordinary se logon ne khud apni financial and emotional freedom ko totally khatam kar diya...aisa maan liya ki  financial freedom is not important.. hum ordinary se ,simple se logon ki aisi thinking hoti hai ki ," we are for our family  and  family mei sabki apni apni responsibility  hai.. jismei maine ghar sambhlne ki responsibility  badi khush khush li hai... jo kafi hadh tak sahi bhi hota..hai"  lekin iske liy apni financial freedom ko compromise karna sahi nahi hai.. financial  freedom ka nahi hona is also a very important  reason of our  low self esteem and of course  low confidence.. humein yeh nahi bhoolna chahiye ki financial  support is also important  and is definitely a way  for supporting our family.... Har  choti choti cheez buy karne ke liye asking others.. is uncomfortable  and most of the time insulting.. it some times leads to different  kinds of depression, feelings of no self worth.. and although  what we do for our families  is priceless.. and nobody else can do it the way we do it.. but still losing financial independence is not a good healthy choice.. in initial years of our lives  we take each others financial burdens happily.. without complaints.. but once the other person  kabhi gusse mei makes us realise of  our expenses.. it is quite insulting..
I am not telling ki  everybody is going to have bad experiences..but chances are quite high.. toh why not work for it.. start something.. today .. now is the time.. how much little you will earn, it will give a whole  lot of confidence  and happiness...😊😊😊👍
You can also further read the below post that describes  what I have felt  as a consequence of financial  dependence..
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/06/consequeces-of-financial-dependence.html

Family First...is my way of life😊😊

Family first..

Namaste everyone,
For we the simple ordinary people " FAMILY FIRST " is not just a thought... hum ise mante bhi hain aur is fact ke sath jeete bhi hain..hamari poori life hamari family par hi focused hoti hai... I am a complete family person.. aisa karke hum koi ehsaan nahi karte..we do it because we love them... more than our own selves...hamara sab kuch sirf hamari family ke liye hi hota hai...
Everyday from morning to night we live for them..but ek stage ke badh aisa lagta hai yeh hamara "all time available"  wala attitude shayad hamari khud ki family  ka humein for granted lene ka reason  ban jata hai...hum unke bina   kuch nai hain.. yeh baat sach bhi hai.. aisa main dilse manti hun...but problem tab aane lagti hai jab hum apne liye ,apni self growth,apni health,apni hobbies ya apne interests ke liye kuch bhi nahi karte... aisa karte karte hum life ke maximum saal nikal dete hain.. and kabhi realise hi nahi karte  ki we  have actually lost ourselves in the journey..
Life itni monotonous ho jati hai.. humein bhi pata nahi chal pata.. what the hell is wrong???The wrong thing is that ki over all these years we never ever thought of ourselves,our self growth... looking inwards..working on something that we really feel contented and happy about. nothing nothing absolutely nothing..
Without family  personal or professional achievements are also of no use...but stopping to work on ourselves is such a blunder that we commit to our selves... inner engineering is very very vital to this.. so we should start it now itself... despite of whatever age groups we belong to.. it is not only important but inevitable..as far as I think about today's social structure and lifestyle.
Start today by doing little little things ,start by taking baby steps.. but do it..😊😊😊👍👍