Namaste everyone,
My kids are my strength..my everything..everything of my life revolves around them.. I love them more than anything or anybody in this world and always will.. most of the ordinary people like me have this mindset and we proudly accept we have it and will continue to do so all our lives..
Many times when we feel low ,rejected ,disappointed and worthless then its our children that make us realise how important we are for them.. atleast in initial years of their lives..what a satisfaction we get knowing that we are inevitable for them.. they love us the way we are..they donot judge us for not having a professional career or our achievements in life ...this undoubtedly makes us happy and we start feeling this is it .. what else we need from life ,we need not do anything about ourselves....
We will continue like this all our lives.." but is sab mei hum yeh bhool jaate hain ki ,our own kids will also grow up ,they will be independent and will be no more dependent on us for everything..they will be separate individuals..with their own mindset and intellect and of course they will also get busy with their own lives , then what will we ordinary people do...we will have nothing at all.. for ourselves.. because we always lacked the spirit and enthusiasm to do something for ourselves.."
If we don't focus on ourselves in initial years of our lives we won't be able to do it when we get middle aged or even old..and restarting will be difficult.. I am not telling impossible but will be of course more challenging.. so why not start today...we should stop giving up on ourselves.. because we are definitely not using our full potential , if we donot follow our passions..and do not even do things that really make us happy..
Some people also give this justification that they are happy the way they are,doing nothing for themselves,living a monotonous life..for others..but sooner or later by not grooming ourselves we are actually not joyful and also cannot make others around us joyful.. that is the main reason most of the people tend to feel irritated ,tired and unhappy about their lives..so...please make the right move now..make a start in whatever possible way but do make a new start.. if a person like me can do,I am damn sure you all also can.😊😊😊
My kids are my strength..my everything..everything of my life revolves around them.. I love them more than anything or anybody in this world and always will.. most of the ordinary people like me have this mindset and we proudly accept we have it and will continue to do so all our lives..
Many times when we feel low ,rejected ,disappointed and worthless then its our children that make us realise how important we are for them.. atleast in initial years of their lives..what a satisfaction we get knowing that we are inevitable for them.. they love us the way we are..they donot judge us for not having a professional career or our achievements in life ...this undoubtedly makes us happy and we start feeling this is it .. what else we need from life ,we need not do anything about ourselves....
We will continue like this all our lives.." but is sab mei hum yeh bhool jaate hain ki ,our own kids will also grow up ,they will be independent and will be no more dependent on us for everything..they will be separate individuals..with their own mindset and intellect and of course they will also get busy with their own lives , then what will we ordinary people do...we will have nothing at all.. for ourselves.. because we always lacked the spirit and enthusiasm to do something for ourselves.."
If we don't focus on ourselves in initial years of our lives we won't be able to do it when we get middle aged or even old..and restarting will be difficult.. I am not telling impossible but will be of course more challenging.. so why not start today...we should stop giving up on ourselves.. because we are definitely not using our full potential , if we donot follow our passions..and do not even do things that really make us happy..
Some people also give this justification that they are happy the way they are,doing nothing for themselves,living a monotonous life..for others..but sooner or later by not grooming ourselves we are actually not joyful and also cannot make others around us joyful.. that is the main reason most of the people tend to feel irritated ,tired and unhappy about their lives..so...please make the right move now..make a start in whatever possible way but do make a new start.. if a person like me can do,I am damn sure you all also can.😊😊😊
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