Loneliness.. how it feels..

Namaste everyone..
How lonely it feels.. sometimes..or many times.. when we just  look at ourselves..
Physically  we are surrounded  by so many people... especially our family ,our loved ones.. par pata nahi kahan se yeh weird  si akelepan ki bimari si lag jati hai..once we allow this feeling to sink in.. toh  what we  get  is a disillusion of a failed  life,without purpose bus chalte rahna, jeete rahna.... wohi repeated si zindagi..aisa humein bahut baar feel hota hai.. one of those low days.. hum aisa feel karte hain.. aur hum yeh samaj nahi pate ki yeh hamara mind kya games khelta hai humare sath..
muje iska reason  yeh lagta hai ki, hum apna poora time apni family mei invest karte hain every day and night.. aur is baat ko maan lete hain ki hamare bina unka kaam nahi chalega.. this is quite misleading..family ko hamari jaroorat hoti hai jaise humein unki.. but jab woh thode independent   ho jate hain.. toh humein laid back feeling aati hai..that further leads to  a strong feeling  of loneliness..that is why life ke har stage mei.. apne chote chote hi sahi, par apne passions ,interests ko jaroor jaroor....follow  karte rahna chahiye.. yeh humein ..bekar ki negative thoughts  se protect karta hai and moreover humein kahin na kahin ek sense of satisfaction  and  purpose bhi deta hai.. jo happy and confident  feel karne ke liye must hain. 
Apne aapko self depressing feelings se protect karna.. is a everyday task..aisa nahi hai.. once we do it and its done .... its a continuous process..it can happen only when we keep ourselves busy doing things we really feel happy about... but this by no way means ki hum apni responsibilties ko ignore karen..and ek selfish si life jeena start kar den...that will be a total disaster. when  we start ignoring our responsibilities life around us will be a mess... then sirf apni happiness ke bare mei soch ke life mei chalna, totally selfish ban jana...yeh for me is really unacceptable.. humein inner engineering karke khud ko enhance karna hai..this is to become  better human beings because  when we  feel happy and confident ... about ourselves , then only we are able  to make others around us happy.. and together we can make a family where our children feel happy ,emotionally strong and confident.. and further a society ,a country and a world... making little little contributions in our own possible ways...😊😊😊

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