Dealing with Financial dependence on others.

Importance of financial independence in life.

Namaste everyone,
Over all those years of our pretty ordinary lives  we did not do anything for self development or anything more or less related to ourselves that was focused on us for our personal ,professional  and for that matter spiritual  growth..
"Hamara focus hamare upar kabhi nahi tha...bus family, family  and family ..we never knew or tried to know anything beyond that.. our lives appear complete...but never were..initially we donot realise.. but slowly gradually we come to know....ki kya kar liya humne apne sath.. kya ban gaye hain hum, emotionally to family pe dependency  hoti hi hai.. there is  nothing wrong in it.. family is our strength and support.. but jab  it comes to financial terms..not initially  but with  passing years.. we realise that humare paas apna earn kiya toh kuch bhi nahi hai.. over all those years apni sari energies family par laga di..but when it comes to our own bank balance .. we are a big zero.. "
Aisa nahi hai ki humein koi necessities  ke liye financial  crunch ho gaya hai or something like that.. but hum ordinary se logon ne khud apni financial and emotional freedom ko totally khatam kar diya...aisa maan liya ki  financial freedom is not important.. hum ordinary se ,simple se logon ki aisi thinking hoti hai ki ," we are for our family  and  family mei sabki apni apni responsibility  hai.. jismei maine ghar sambhlne ki responsibility  badi khush khush li hai... jo kafi hadh tak sahi bhi hota..hai"  lekin iske liy apni financial freedom ko compromise karna sahi nahi hai.. financial  freedom ka nahi hona is also a very important  reason of our  low self esteem and of course  low confidence.. humein yeh nahi bhoolna chahiye ki financial  support is also important  and is definitely a way  for supporting our family.... Har  choti choti cheez buy karne ke liye asking others.. is uncomfortable  and most of the time insulting.. it some times leads to different  kinds of depression, feelings of no self worth.. and although  what we do for our families  is priceless.. and nobody else can do it the way we do it.. but still losing financial independence is not a good healthy choice.. in initial years of our lives  we take each others financial burdens happily.. without complaints.. but once the other person  kabhi gusse mei makes us realise of  our expenses.. it is quite insulting..
I am not telling ki  everybody is going to have bad experiences..but chances are quite high.. toh why not work for it.. start something.. today .. now is the time.. how much little you will earn, it will give a whole  lot of confidence  and happiness...😊😊😊👍
You can also further read the below post that describes  what I have felt  as a consequence of financial  dependence..
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/06/consequeces-of-financial-dependence.html