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This is my second post regarding Respect in Relationships...I donot know whether I am totally correct or not..but I do truly feel that how can you sustain a relationship without respect for each other???..You love a person but you can not give the due respect to him or her..this thing appears silly to me..We may not like a lot of things about each other,but somehow you decided to be part of a relationship..If you are losing respect for each other,it is certain that sooner or later the so called forced relationship will find its way to the end..What is expected of a partner from the other is you should not hurt the dignity of the other.. especially in front of others..some people think atleast you should act respectfully in front of others..I do not see any justification in this also respect is something you have to give at all times..its not that something you have to act or pretend to do...If one person cannot give respect to the other individual as part of a relstionship just walking away is the correct choice...because this disrespectful behavior is not a one day thing it happens over and over again without any apologies or regrets..
People hurt others without any justified reasons, reasons are endless..but the abuse continues. Disrespectful behaviour starts with one individual's self proclaimed thought of superiority over the other..which is noway healthy for any realationship..A healthy relationship is made from equals and not from two different individuals with one having an assumption of being someway somewhat superior to the other with the exclusive rights of hurting the other,insulting him or her in any possible way, making them feel insecure, feel inferior..
Disrespect and any kind of abusive behaviour is unacceptable, everyone preaches that..But what is the way out..because relationships usually donot break on any particular day's behaviour..they break when abusing the other becomes the part of everyday life,in endless different ways ..
Now comes the reality check, who gave this unlawful inhumane right to one person to hurt other person's dignity over and over again..continuously from days months and years..The answer is obviously the weaker person ,due to their whatever personal reasons or weaknesses they kept tolerating the nonsense abuse of the other..The weak declared themselves helpless idiots who have nowhere to go ,so continued this fake relationship..due to the fear of society or financial constraints or any other reason..but accepting abuse of any kind can never be justified by any damn reason.. I do agree with the fact that compulsions are there but they never give the other person right to treat others disrespectfully..
Atleast we shouldn't encourage this kind of behaviour against anybody including our ownselves...We have to raise our voice against this unacceptable behaviour before it creates never dimininishing scars in our lives,leaving us weak ,underconfident and insecure individuals..that forget to live life and simply continue to exist without any aspirations or dreams...
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This is my second post regarding Respect in Relationships...I donot know whether I am totally correct or not..but I do truly feel that how can you sustain a relationship without respect for each other???..You love a person but you can not give the due respect to him or her..this thing appears silly to me..We may not like a lot of things about each other,but somehow you decided to be part of a relationship..If you are losing respect for each other,it is certain that sooner or later the so called forced relationship will find its way to the end..What is expected of a partner from the other is you should not hurt the dignity of the other.. especially in front of others..some people think atleast you should act respectfully in front of others..I do not see any justification in this also respect is something you have to give at all times..its not that something you have to act or pretend to do...If one person cannot give respect to the other individual as part of a relstionship just walking away is the correct choice...because this disrespectful behavior is not a one day thing it happens over and over again without any apologies or regrets..
People hurt others without any justified reasons, reasons are endless..but the abuse continues. Disrespectful behaviour starts with one individual's self proclaimed thought of superiority over the other..which is noway healthy for any realationship..A healthy relationship is made from equals and not from two different individuals with one having an assumption of being someway somewhat superior to the other with the exclusive rights of hurting the other,insulting him or her in any possible way, making them feel insecure, feel inferior..
Disrespect and any kind of abusive behaviour is unacceptable, everyone preaches that..But what is the way out..because relationships usually donot break on any particular day's behaviour..they break when abusing the other becomes the part of everyday life,in endless different ways ..
Now comes the reality check, who gave this unlawful inhumane right to one person to hurt other person's dignity over and over again..continuously from days months and years..The answer is obviously the weaker person ,due to their whatever personal reasons or weaknesses they kept tolerating the nonsense abuse of the other..The weak declared themselves helpless idiots who have nowhere to go ,so continued this fake relationship..due to the fear of society or financial constraints or any other reason..but accepting abuse of any kind can never be justified by any damn reason.. I do agree with the fact that compulsions are there but they never give the other person right to treat others disrespectfully..
Atleast we shouldn't encourage this kind of behaviour against anybody including our ownselves...We have to raise our voice against this unacceptable behaviour before it creates never dimininishing scars in our lives,leaving us weak ,underconfident and insecure individuals..that forget to live life and simply continue to exist without any aspirations or dreams...
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/fake-relationships.htmlhttps://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/fake-relationships.html
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