Failures and success in life..

Namaste everyone,
Life is full of uncertainty, we have been listening  to the fact that ,Life is Uncertain... nothing is in full control , we just have to go with the flow..but  we really begin to feel it when we grow up..We make a lot of plans for the future...we plan and we expect  better things for our  future...Its not that everytime bad things happen..but more or less its different  from what we really  expect or want...
There are different  categories  of people according  to their different  mindsets..
1.People who are getting success  in their lives in one way or the other , keep on moving..They do feel a sense of purpose .They have something to look upto on daily basis..
2. People who are some how contented in whatever they have ,they feel no need of any accomplishment..they feel satisfied..(this category of people are very very less).Uncertainties do not bother them..
3.The third category of people have nothing significant to talk about..They have not achieved anything till date..but they do crave  for it,but do not find a way out...They lack purpose  and are continuously suffering from a strong feeling  of unworthiness..
Actually it seems that most of the people in their life have been in this third category for at least some time..Fortunately  some found a way out..and others still continue to be there ,hanging..
Uncertainty is part of every body's  life..Its not that the successful ones don’t  have their share of problems or they donot feel low or they donot fail..but they do not allow circumstances  to take over their lives..and they continue no matter what....they find ways, uncertainty bothers them but does not stop them from moving ahead towards their goals...
In life its always the survival of the fittest..and in today's  world  I feel only head strong  can survive.. Believing  in our own selves is the key but the most difficult thing to garner ,if we master that..success is assured..sooner or later..Usually the ordinary ones stop trying after  à few failures...and even stop trying.When they are uncertain or unsure about the results..they fail to perform,their insecurities come into play ,they feel lack of confidence, ,fear of failure and fear of judgement from others scares them. Instead of exposing themselves to this test of judgement by others ,they choose to simply quit instead of  hanging in there ..They continue to live in this fear and  simply stop dreaming...because they no more believe in themselves...They are definitely shattered to the core with the failures and disappointments they suffered in their lives..Everybody knows failures hurt..be it emotional or financial..The thing is  there are so many barriers in the way towards success of any kind...One who decides to overcome them or treat them as lessons in life can move ahead...
I personally feel we all may be ordinary but are still special in some sense...we may be of no value for most of the people in the world but we are special and most important for  very very few..That's what matters..
We may have failed many a times but  we can succeed if we keep on trying...
“Success is not final ,failure is not fatal : it is the courage to continue that counts.”-Winston Churchill.

 “It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” —J. K. Rowling


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