Namaste everyone,
Relationships are easy to make...I am focussing here on relationships between grown ups..We as adults sonehow feel attracted towards eah other and fell into relationships..I am not saying all relationships can be disastrous to everybody's personal well being..but they can be... if there is no mutual respect among the two..I am not at all gender biased... Attraction happens..and is of course inevitable..
I feel relationships fail mainly because people do not treat their better halfs with equal respect...Problems arise if any one of partners starts dominating the relationship because of the following possible reasons:
1.May be he or she is more qualified or earns better and the other partner earns less or does not earn at all.
2.May be because any of the one has better looks.
3.May be because the one of the partner belongs to a better family background..
4.May be because one of the partner 's nature is as such.
5.May be because one of the partner is deeply inecure and dominating..
6.May be because one of the partner has noway to go because of his or her financial conditions or even social pressures.
Reasons are endless..and can differ from person to person..“What I am deeply concerned is who gives the right to one of the partner to treat his or her better half disrespectfully...
One of the partner can be less educated,can earn less or have a failed professional life..but who gives them the audacity to treat the other badly ..They keep on verbally abusing the weaker one (as they assume it)..
The underlying assumption usually for this kind of hurtful behaviour is the assumption that the other person will not go anywhere because of social or financial restrictions.“
Disrespect is not tolerable..at all in any relationship..basis of adult relationships is equality..but without respect for each other how can we expect equality..Every relationship is flawed.. No one is perfect..Everybody has some weaknesses be it emotional or financial..but "being in relationships both the partners are expected to support each other both emotionally and financially..which ever way possible..people in relationships should complete each other..should make each feel wanted ..not that the one person should make the other person feel like a burden or a liability..Relationships are not liabilities, everything in relationships are done out of love...no other reason drives it..but if one of the partner starts feeling superior to the other..he or she will definitely turn disrespectful to the other...
Be respectful to your partners , they may be weak,underqualified ,not so good looking..or whatever weakness the other may have..Please become each other's strength..and help each other overcome their weaknesses and accept them as they are but with utmost respect and equality...🥰🥰🥰
My following posts are further related to respect and fakeness in relation 👇👇
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/relationships-without-respect2.htmlhttps://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/relationships-without-respect2.html
Relationships are easy to make...I am focussing here on relationships between grown ups..We as adults sonehow feel attracted towards eah other and fell into relationships..I am not saying all relationships can be disastrous to everybody's personal well being..but they can be... if there is no mutual respect among the two..I am not at all gender biased... Attraction happens..and is of course inevitable..
I feel relationships fail mainly because people do not treat their better halfs with equal respect...Problems arise if any one of partners starts dominating the relationship because of the following possible reasons:
1.May be he or she is more qualified or earns better and the other partner earns less or does not earn at all.
2.May be because any of the one has better looks.
3.May be because the one of the partner belongs to a better family background..
4.May be because one of the partner 's nature is as such.
5.May be because one of the partner is deeply inecure and dominating..
6.May be because one of the partner has noway to go because of his or her financial conditions or even social pressures.
Reasons are endless..and can differ from person to person..“What I am deeply concerned is who gives the right to one of the partner to treat his or her better half disrespectfully...
One of the partner can be less educated,can earn less or have a failed professional life..but who gives them the audacity to treat the other badly ..They keep on verbally abusing the weaker one (as they assume it)..
The underlying assumption usually for this kind of hurtful behaviour is the assumption that the other person will not go anywhere because of social or financial restrictions.“
Disrespect is not tolerable..at all in any relationship..basis of adult relationships is equality..but without respect for each other how can we expect equality..Every relationship is flawed.. No one is perfect..Everybody has some weaknesses be it emotional or financial..but "being in relationships both the partners are expected to support each other both emotionally and financially..which ever way possible..people in relationships should complete each other..should make each feel wanted ..not that the one person should make the other person feel like a burden or a liability..Relationships are not liabilities, everything in relationships are done out of love...no other reason drives it..but if one of the partner starts feeling superior to the other..he or she will definitely turn disrespectful to the other...
Be respectful to your partners , they may be weak,underqualified ,not so good looking..or whatever weakness the other may have..Please become each other's strength..and help each other overcome their weaknesses and accept them as they are but with utmost respect and equality...🥰🥰🥰
My following posts are further related to respect and fakeness in relation 👇👇
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/relationships-without-respect2.htmlhttps://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/relationships-without-respect2.html
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/fake-relationships.htmlhttps://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/fake-relationships.html
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