Namaste everyone,
We are ordinary people and are often heard saying all relationships are fake...My personal view on this also has been the same..
People betray others,take advantage of others, manipulate them, use them and finally throw them out of their lives when they find ordinary people no longer useful..
These things are quite common in today's world..and everyone has faced this in one way or the other..but the point here is who should be held responsible for these betrayals...obvious answer is the one who betrayed, cheated or used the other one..
But my thoughts deep within think "Yes" the betrayer is responsible..but but but..the other ordinary person is no less responsible.. You will be annoyed with me listening to this but let me give you my point..
We are simple, ordinary people that want serious and pure relationships in life and always strive for that..We always give our more than 100% to make the relationship work...but in all this we give ourselves completely..and keep on giving so much space to the other partner that the other partner starts taking us for granted..we are even ready to give our own breathing space ,we reveal our weaknesses to them..we become totally vulnerable in front of them..we become totally emotionally dependent upon them..
We can not imagine life without them..we become ready for sacrificing anything including our ego for the relationship to somehow work..I am not saying there should be any ego in relationships..It's just that people keep on taking us for granted and for the sake of continuing the relationship we continue to tolerate..usually ordinary people want to continue a relationship once made and want to give more then 100% to somehow continue it..but in this process we ourselves become so weak and vulnerable that even after recognizing flaws in the relationship and the partner we just can not gather the courage to end it ..
They keep playing with weaker person's emotions ..and ordinary people allow them easily because they are themselves insecure deep within..only for the sake of relationship that was actually a fake one..we continue to make efforts to continue it somehow..
We ordinary ones gave all the strength to them because of our own weaknesses,we ourselves gave right to them to treat us badly or the way they want it to be ...with no revolt or even sign of annoyance from our side..That makes us so underconfident...that the other so powerful..
There is no equality in fake relationships, there is no mutual respect , no love ..nothing ..but the fake relationship continues because the ordinary one is too weak to end it...
Giving your everything to a relationship is not at all a bad thing..everyone is actually needs a relationship that is pure to the core and we do live for each other in pure relationship.. but not by using the other and throwing him or her out when they no longer suit you...is not at aĺl acceptable..We ordinary ones have to overcome our weaknesses and strive for equality and respect in relationships...otherwise continuing the relationship will be burden than an asset in life...
"Please ,please , donot jump into relationships to hide your insecurities and weaknesses...first overcome them and then think of being in a relationship... Relationships should be our strengths for life not weakness.."
We are ordinary people and are often heard saying all relationships are fake...My personal view on this also has been the same..
People betray others,take advantage of others, manipulate them, use them and finally throw them out of their lives when they find ordinary people no longer useful..
These things are quite common in today's world..and everyone has faced this in one way or the other..but the point here is who should be held responsible for these betrayals...obvious answer is the one who betrayed, cheated or used the other one..
But my thoughts deep within think "Yes" the betrayer is responsible..but but but..the other ordinary person is no less responsible.. You will be annoyed with me listening to this but let me give you my point..
We are simple, ordinary people that want serious and pure relationships in life and always strive for that..We always give our more than 100% to make the relationship work...but in all this we give ourselves completely..and keep on giving so much space to the other partner that the other partner starts taking us for granted..we are even ready to give our own breathing space ,we reveal our weaknesses to them..we become totally vulnerable in front of them..we become totally emotionally dependent upon them..
We can not imagine life without them..we become ready for sacrificing anything including our ego for the relationship to somehow work..I am not saying there should be any ego in relationships..It's just that people keep on taking us for granted and for the sake of continuing the relationship we continue to tolerate..usually ordinary people want to continue a relationship once made and want to give more then 100% to somehow continue it..but in this process we ourselves become so weak and vulnerable that even after recognizing flaws in the relationship and the partner we just can not gather the courage to end it ..
They keep playing with weaker person's emotions ..and ordinary people allow them easily because they are themselves insecure deep within..only for the sake of relationship that was actually a fake one..we continue to make efforts to continue it somehow..
We ordinary ones gave all the strength to them because of our own weaknesses,we ourselves gave right to them to treat us badly or the way they want it to be ...with no revolt or even sign of annoyance from our side..That makes us so underconfident...that the other so powerful..
There is no equality in fake relationships, there is no mutual respect , no love ..nothing ..but the fake relationship continues because the ordinary one is too weak to end it...
Giving your everything to a relationship is not at all a bad thing..everyone is actually needs a relationship that is pure to the core and we do live for each other in pure relationship.. but not by using the other and throwing him or her out when they no longer suit you...is not at aĺl acceptable..We ordinary ones have to overcome our weaknesses and strive for equality and respect in relationships...otherwise continuing the relationship will be burden than an asset in life...
"Please ,please , donot jump into relationships to hide your insecurities and weaknesses...first overcome them and then think of being in a relationship... Relationships should be our strengths for life not weakness.."
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