Am I selfish????

Namaste everyone,

 I am definitely getting underwhelmed about life... Simple simple Life's expectations  can not be met for ordinary people like me in a relationship..Am I acting selfish by having these expectations?Why me?? Don't  know the answer....There are so many Questions bothering me today..I am figuring out life by looking for answers of following questions:

1.Is it wrong to expect love from people we love?

2.Is it wrong to expect respect and trust in a relationship?

3.Is it wrong to expect commitment in a relationship?

4.Is it wrong to have a special space of only the two individuals involved in the relationship?

5.Is it wrong to have your own space in life?

6.Is it wrong to not agree all the time?

7.Is it wrong not to compromise all the time?

8.Is it wrong not to say sorry  without your fault?

9.Is it wrong to have friendship with other people ?

10.Is it fair to leave everybody else in the world for the relationship?

11.Is it not wrong to be conditional in a relationship?

12.Is it not wrong to take only financial benefits from each other in the name of a relationship?

13.Is it not wrong to abuse your fellow partner?

14.Is it not wrong to use your partner as a ladder  towards success?

15.Is it not wrong to keep reminding your partner about his or her weaknesses?

16.Is it not wrong to demotivate or stop your partner from pursuing his or her career or dreams?

17.Is it not wrong to do all the things you never want or expect your partner to do?

18.Is it not wrong to be never bothered about how your partner feels or is going through?

19.Is it wrong to force your opinion on your partner all the time?

20.Is it raising your own opinion,likes or dislikes wrong in a relationship?

21.Is it wrong for a partner to expect the highest priority in other partner's life and vice versa ?

22.Is it feeling emotionally  dependent on your partner  wrong?

23.Is it asking for equality wrong in a relationship?

Am I acting Selfish if I raise these questions in a relationship..?

Dear readers,you can easily figure out these are obvious questions that come into our minds when something  is really wrong in a relationship..Answers to these questions can simply guide us,when in doubt.. As ordinary people,  these relationships are  very  important to us..They are our everything..And walking out won't be easy for us..but reciprocation of feelings is a must in a relationship..This is not definitely too much to expect from a relationship. When we are not able to feel the vibes  and everything appears selfish and conditional,for how long a person can single  handedly drag the relationship that has turned into a burden way before  we even realized or sensed..Keep asking yourselves  these questions when in doubt..Asking for atleast same feelings,respect trust and care is not acting selfish.. These are the foundations of a healthy relationship...Please don't undermine yourself and donot force yourself or your uninterested partner into  relationships..Love and trust binds two people together..Honesty and commitment  helps to continue..If there is love but no commitment,respect and honesty in a relationship,that relationship is destined to mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically hurt people and is destined to fail..So whenever you are in doubt keep looking for answers for the above questions and donot drag yourself  into depression from a failed relationship..

Look for the red flags and make yourself  strong enough so that you can handle whatever comes your way..All relationships are not good and worth it..But this is also true that all relationships are not  destined to fail..Pure people still exist..True love still exists..and fully committed, honest and trustworthy people also exist ,they may be  very rare but they exist 🥰🥰... Please,Please...Don't rush into a relationship only for the sake of being  in a relationship..