Namaste everyone,
Relationships are an important part of every human beings life.
But don't know why and when they start becoming an emotional burden on the two individuals involved..
We keep on ignoring the signs that something is wrong ,something is lacking..The imbalance in relationships is definitely caused because either one of the partner has taken all the load to continue the relationship and the other one has definitely started taking the relationship for granted or has no more feelings left for the relationship or the other partner..
The thing that everything is mutual in a relationship is true to the core..and lack of any thing that is not mutual be it love ,care ,time, trust and most importantly respect will definitely leads to a failure in relationships.. Intially people usually find themselves very happy, secure , respected and very important for the other..It is obiviously because both the partners give 100% attention to each others needs and feelings..Moreover they are mostly ready to sacrifice their own priorities for each other ..They do it happily and willingly without any pressure or unease.
We fail to recognise that how can a relationship continue if the burden of its well being is purely on one of the partner's shoulders and the other is least bothered about the partner as well as the relationship..With each passing day it becomes extremely difficult for the partner still fully emotionally involved in the relationship to carry on.. Because there is no reciprocation of feelings from the other...
"A relationship is a plant that feeds on mutual love,trust respect and care..The plant becomes malnutritioned with feedings only from a single partner.."
How come emotional expectations of one of the partner be met if other partner doesn't bother or is least affected..The sole purpose of a relationship is to make both the partners feel loved ,respected and emotionally secure..and not emotionally dependent weak and insecure.. Relationships are our strength, they drive us through life's thick and thin with ease , happiness and comfort..They are not burdens definitely..If we are feeling like that..and fulfillment of each other's expectations from us appears to be a burden there is definitely something that is not right.
This reasons of disinterest of one of the partner or further both the partners being unaware of little little things that matter for each other is earliest sign of downfall of a relationship..
Things that give the other partner immense happiness when no longer matter for the other, It is definitely a wrong sign..Because we can not be ignorant to each others feelings and expectations if love and respect is there.. but this is also true that most of the times if one of the partner decides to carry on without any expectations the relationship simply lingers on..but without any soul..
With due course of time this concept of only one partner carrying on, only leads to further bitterness ,disrespect and discomfort..One sided relationships are noway a healthy option..but sometimes for ordinary people to gather courage to come out of a relationship is very difficult..
Emotional turmoil is not easy for anyone..Nobody can simply live without love care and affection..It's absolutely human to crave for love, care and a family.We have look for the red flags in relations and can not by any way ignore them..Its not that all relationships are bound to fail..Its our pure intentions towards the relation that will further decide that relationship will survive or not .. It is the responsibility of both the partners to take care for each other's feelings and nurture the relationship and if you are not willing to take responsibility of the other as a partner ,just stop continuing to take advantage of other person's feelings for you..
Feelings are definitely pious, we shouldn't hurt each other in any possible way..Not everybody in this world is blessed enough to get into real and pure relationships and people..In today's world it is extremely difficult and rare..
Dear readers,please value your partners and relations..because our mere ignorance or sometimes our own selfishness can also result us in the failure of a relationship..Just trust,respect and take care of your loved ones and please do not take them for granted..I am not at all in favour of continuing a abusive or dishonest or disrespectful relationship.. but give your best to continue your real relationships and give value to your loved ones..
At least your silly faults or by noway your selfishness be responsible for the failure of the relation..🥰💞
My below post further describes why people start taking others for granted??👇👇
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/06/why-people-take-others-for-grantedwhy.html
Relationships are an important part of every human beings life.
But don't know why and when they start becoming an emotional burden on the two individuals involved..
We keep on ignoring the signs that something is wrong ,something is lacking..The imbalance in relationships is definitely caused because either one of the partner has taken all the load to continue the relationship and the other one has definitely started taking the relationship for granted or has no more feelings left for the relationship or the other partner..
The thing that everything is mutual in a relationship is true to the core..and lack of any thing that is not mutual be it love ,care ,time, trust and most importantly respect will definitely leads to a failure in relationships.. Intially people usually find themselves very happy, secure , respected and very important for the other..It is obiviously because both the partners give 100% attention to each others needs and feelings..Moreover they are mostly ready to sacrifice their own priorities for each other ..They do it happily and willingly without any pressure or unease.
We fail to recognise that how can a relationship continue if the burden of its well being is purely on one of the partner's shoulders and the other is least bothered about the partner as well as the relationship..With each passing day it becomes extremely difficult for the partner still fully emotionally involved in the relationship to carry on.. Because there is no reciprocation of feelings from the other...
"A relationship is a plant that feeds on mutual love,trust respect and care..The plant becomes malnutritioned with feedings only from a single partner.."
How come emotional expectations of one of the partner be met if other partner doesn't bother or is least affected..The sole purpose of a relationship is to make both the partners feel loved ,respected and emotionally secure..and not emotionally dependent weak and insecure.. Relationships are our strength, they drive us through life's thick and thin with ease , happiness and comfort..They are not burdens definitely..If we are feeling like that..and fulfillment of each other's expectations from us appears to be a burden there is definitely something that is not right.
This reasons of disinterest of one of the partner or further both the partners being unaware of little little things that matter for each other is earliest sign of downfall of a relationship..
Things that give the other partner immense happiness when no longer matter for the other, It is definitely a wrong sign..Because we can not be ignorant to each others feelings and expectations if love and respect is there.. but this is also true that most of the times if one of the partner decides to carry on without any expectations the relationship simply lingers on..but without any soul..
With due course of time this concept of only one partner carrying on, only leads to further bitterness ,disrespect and discomfort..One sided relationships are noway a healthy option..but sometimes for ordinary people to gather courage to come out of a relationship is very difficult..
Emotional turmoil is not easy for anyone..Nobody can simply live without love care and affection..It's absolutely human to crave for love, care and a family.We have look for the red flags in relations and can not by any way ignore them..Its not that all relationships are bound to fail..Its our pure intentions towards the relation that will further decide that relationship will survive or not .. It is the responsibility of both the partners to take care for each other's feelings and nurture the relationship and if you are not willing to take responsibility of the other as a partner ,just stop continuing to take advantage of other person's feelings for you..
Feelings are definitely pious, we shouldn't hurt each other in any possible way..Not everybody in this world is blessed enough to get into real and pure relationships and people..In today's world it is extremely difficult and rare..
Dear readers,please value your partners and relations..because our mere ignorance or sometimes our own selfishness can also result us in the failure of a relationship..Just trust,respect and take care of your loved ones and please do not take them for granted..I am not at all in favour of continuing a abusive or dishonest or disrespectful relationship.. but give your best to continue your real relationships and give value to your loved ones..
At least your silly faults or by noway your selfishness be responsible for the failure of the relation..🥰💞
My below post further describes why people start taking others for granted??👇👇
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/06/why-people-take-others-for-grantedwhy.html
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