Why people take others for granted?
Namaste everyone,Could not figure out all my life "Why people take others for granted...???They usually donot value others ,they don't value their emotions,they donot value how they feel ,they obviously many a times disrespect them , they are rude and most importantly they never value the time and emotions ,we invested in them.."Strange but true.
I personally feel the main reason behind this is our "Let go" attitude all the time with everybody..We usually make ourselves 24/7 available to others..That i think is the main culprit..I am not saying there is anything wrong in that..people rely on us ,they trust us ,they depend on us..they come to us with their problems..So everything is ok.. and appears to be fine..But when it comes to our problems , our trust ,our priorities ,something wrong definitely happens..Actually most people fail to prioritize us the same way we prioritize them..as they have the perception that we are weak ,so we will not go any where..we need no attention ,we can be easily ignored , we donot require appreciation or any kind of acknowledgement for things we do for them..
In our daily busy routines sometimes unknowingly and unintentionally we fail to acknowledge our most important relations..as if they are there forever..
Mostly people realise the importance of many relations , be it their close friends ,family members or anybody they have been close to..after losing them.Why can not we take the necessary steps st the right time everyday , why we have to lose people and even things to realize and feel their real importance in our lives..Is it that difficult..No absolutely not..If we continously remind ourselves not to treat others the way we donot want ourselves to be treated..
If we watch our words and not speak rude words of insult against others that we never want to hear for ourselves..things can be improved ,relationships can be made strong. We have to take atleast little responsibility of emotional well being of people around us ,our family, friends and people close to us..We have to keep lifting their spirits up and make them feel wanted ,loved and important because we also want the same..Everybody wants to be loved, liked and appreciated for whatever little things they do in their own possible ways.. Our relationships are very important to us as we are to them..It should not to be too late before we fail to recognize and acknowledge this..😊😊Let us acknowledge all our relations and people around us with love and respect..
