What are our fears??
Namaste everyone,Everyone in this world has some kind of fears.
Dictionary meaning of fear is 'an unplesant emotion caused by the threat of danger,pain or harm'.
We ordinary people have fears that really create a sense of unpleasantness in our minds that if we express ourselves or start living for our ownselves or if we will start doing something new ,we feel the threat of judgement by others ,that further leads to the sense of danger in the form some kind of insult ,verbal abuse or some kind of ruthless statements that really hurt our dignity and self confidence and further leads to immense pain that is of course not visible to any body..that harms us in numerous ways like depression, low self esteem,lack of confidence and a strong feeling of unworthiness..We all do have fears of failures, rejections or fears of losing someone or things very close to us..We continue to live in fears for years altogether only because of the fear of the consequences of our fears..In this long continuous process we become so emotionally weak..that we forget to live,we just want to be part of the crowd,we can never think of trying something new,we can not do anything that is beyond the set rules of society..We just want to please everyone ,we can never say "No" to anyone ,we will never let others know what is going through our minds , how insecure and weak we actually become we have no idea about..
I personally feel "Fear" is something bad that we expect that it may happen in future.
I am not saying fears are totally unreal..but the thing is till it has not happened or turned to reality , Why can not we just try to turn the tables??..Why can not we try doing something about it..we feel the threat of judgement by others ,that further leads to the sense of danger in the form some kind of insult ,verbal abuse or some kind of ruthless statements that really hurt our dignity and self confidence and further leads to immense pain that is of course not visible to any body..that harms us in numerous ways like depression, low self esteem,lack of confidence and a strong feeling of unworthiness.. We fear failure,but Why can not we work more harder?? ,try giving more than our 100%,Why can not we prepare ourselves for all kind of results??..Why can not we become mentally strong??..Why can not we have a Plan B,Plan C.....and so on..if Plan A fails...why can not we change our mindsets..Think about it..Let me know how you all feel about it..🤔🤔
Taking fears head on is not easy but it is definitely not impossible ..atleast we can live life happily before anything bad happens as we actually assume it to happen..With nurturing our self growth , our self confidence can definitely be boosted and we become head strong to face life as comes to us .😊😊
