Namaste everyone,
A weird thought is really bothering me nowadays...or may be it was always there and bothering me deep within but I never ever expressed it...As we always present a different and rather polished version of ourselves and that we are “Ok” but deep within we are not.. We pretend to be happy but we are not..my below post describes the things we should stop pretending ,start living fully but as the way we are and feel..and for that we ourselves have to first accept us as we are..Below is the list of our daily pretensions...
I have been like this for almost 14 years..this was my thought process... But the good part is now that giving yourself to the world and sacrificing your priorities and needs is good to some extent but in all this if you completely forget yourself, you will definitely end up in deep emotional or sometimes financial mess as well. Because slowly and gradually you will realise people mostly do not reciprocate feelings and attention as we give to them..It further results in thoughts like .."What is wrong with us?""Are we not worthy enough??"
How can we expect others to give us preference when we give ourselves the last?
Think about it...
Sooner or later we have to give ourselves the nourishment of atleast little self confidence that we are worth it like every body else is .We have to stop judging ourselves and have to stop defining ourselves as per other people's definitions.. We can not be so harsh towards ourselves all the time..They donot even know us fully..
A weird thought is really bothering me nowadays...or may be it was always there and bothering me deep within but I never ever expressed it...As we always present a different and rather polished version of ourselves and that we are “Ok” but deep within we are not.. We pretend to be happy but we are not..my below post describes the things we should stop pretending ,start living fully but as the way we are and feel..and for that we ourselves have to first accept us as we are..Below is the list of our daily pretensions...
- I am tired of pretending a perfect picture of myself like most of ordinary people do...
- I always pretend to be the most adjusting one..
- I always pretend to be not affected by what other's intentional or unintentional comments..
- I pretend to be not bothered by my failed professional life..
- I pretend to be not bothered by treated as a extra who can fitin any where..
- I pretend to be happy all the time..
- I pretend to agree mostly even for things I strongly disagree..
- I pretend to be the one who can ever get angry..
- I pretend to be not bothered about how I look..
- I pretend to feel nothing..
- I pretend to have no priorities, likes or dislikes at all..
- I pretend to always saying "Yes",I just can not say "No" to anyone..
- I pretend to be not bothered about not having a real purpose..
- I pretend to be not bothered about people never meeting my expectations..
- I pretend to be not bothered about people not prioritising me as I do to them..
- I pretend to be not bothered when people ignore me or take advantages from me..
- In nutshell I always pretend to be happy and strong..but in reality I am noway even near to that..
I have been like this for almost 14 years..this was my thought process... But the good part is now that giving yourself to the world and sacrificing your priorities and needs is good to some extent but in all this if you completely forget yourself, you will definitely end up in deep emotional or sometimes financial mess as well. Because slowly and gradually you will realise people mostly do not reciprocate feelings and attention as we give to them..It further results in thoughts like .."What is wrong with us?""Are we not worthy enough??"
How can we expect others to give us preference when we give ourselves the last?
Think about it...
Sooner or later we have to give ourselves the nourishment of atleast little self confidence that we are worth it like every body else is .We have to stop judging ourselves and have to stop defining ourselves as per other people's definitions.. We can not be so harsh towards ourselves all the time..They donot even know us fully..
We have been presenting a polished and adaptable picture of ourselves..We have to stop pretending... We have to start living for ourselves as well and most importantly we have to come out of the shell of the image of the average adjusting one,who fits in every where..Think about it ,this struggle is real..🤔🤔
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