Life of an ordinary Housewife..

Namaste everyone ,

I am a housewife  for almost 14 years,I was a housewife out of choice initially because my family and kids were my only priority..The only thing I expected from life was prosperity,well being  and happiness of my family..I never expected anything else from life ..I  never had any personal goals or dreams...

With passing years,I never realised how much underconfident  I became in front of people outside my family..I started lacking any little little decision making capability.. I was turning dumb..It is not that I was not qualified enough (I am B.tech ,M.tech in Computer Science).The thing I lacked was I was least bothered about  my own self...

Being a stay at home Mom ,I started ignoring my looks  and my health as well..I was never very peculiar about how I looked ..Neither was I bothered to go with the trends as I was busy in the upbringing of my kids..The strange thing was I never felt anythimg wrong in this 100% dedication towards my family..My family also never noticed that how I totally ignored myself over all these years..May be they would have thought that I am the typical housewife types..As most of the people judge us as housewives.. Society is not  bothered if we carry on like this and keep on fulfilling our responsibilities...They donot have a slightest  clue or they donot care that how a person's individuality is lost in the whole process of running a family as a  housewife..

Love and care given by us 24/7 to our families is not done to get any thing in return, it is only done out of love and care...I am not at all saying that all housewives have troubled lives but one thing is sure that we are never prepared for anything (God forbid) bad in life..We lack decision making ,we donot know how to handle finances..We don't know how to handle the world..We only know about our house ,our kids and everything going on  inside the house nothing else beyond that because that has been our life  for so many years..We never bothered  to know about the outside world..Our house, kids and family is the only world known to us..

We never did any self improvement, grooming or any kind of personality development to face the real world...This is particularly the case with simple ,ordinary  housewives  like me..🤔😕🤔 

Dear readers, Total commitment towards our family is a thing to be appreciated and not a thing to regret for ....but keeping out a piece of life for  our own selves is the thing that should be added to our daily routines... Otherwise we ordinary housewives will definitely end up  as a lost,underconfident and insecure person...This 100% dependency on family both emotional amd financial is not at all a healthy option..It may appear to work in earlier times and also I should say in the initial years of married life but not all our life because when our kids grow up and we grow old, the whole scenario changes..Living a dependent  life is no longer  recommended in today's  world..

Dear readers, I want to motivate you today that ,Please start taking out at least little time for your ownselves on daily basis..It is not a thing to be avoided ..In today's world it's definitely  mandatory..Work on your skills,Work on your health..Stay healthy...Improve  your learning,Work on a hobby...Go for a walk...but Do spend some  time on yourselves for self grooming and development..😊😇

You can also  read my below  post to read about the feelings of housewives..

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