How to differentiate between right and wrong decisions in life?
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How to differentiate between right and wrong decisions in life?This question kept bothering me all the time and I think everyone faces this question back in their minds quite often..during various moments or even stages of life..
I am a ordinary person and had a pretty much unsuccessful professional life.Now that I look back in the past.. My life today is clearly the consequence of decisions I took early in my life..Everyone relates with this fact..The point here is that the decisions we took were good for us or not..As far as my failed track record is concerned I have been a average person,with lot of failures ..Actually I donot have much to tell or say about success because I never felt it..How disspointing is that..Ya it is very very dissapointing or I should say its heart breaking...as far as I am concerned...but over the years I realised at different phases of life we have to take decisions that affect our personal and professional life..This is true ..but this is also true that we have to make although small decisions or rather choices on daily basis as well..They also affect us... The consequences of our decisions are sometimes positive and sometimes negative..
"With positive outcomes we donot become any changed person ,we are still the same deep within if the outcome comes negative...but we start defining our ownselves with the outcomes of decisions we took..."
People judge us by the outcomes of our decisions all our lives..We start believing their judgements..
Everything goes pretty well if somehow our decisions come out to be successful ,we are labeled as successful , intelligent and extraordinary ,till any of our decisions results in a huge failure...and people start calling us failure for life..and we as the dumbest creatures of the world.. make it our reality and even stop trying and doing something to improve our situation..
Pretty ordinary people like me whose most of life decisions resulted in failure become so underconfident and insecure that we lose even the simplest decision making powers..We even feel underconfident to choose a perfect dress that suits us ..we need to seek approvals for every thing we do..
How to differentiate between right and wrong decisions in life?This question kept bothering me all the time and I think everyone faces this question back in their minds quite often..during various moments or even stages of life..
I am a ordinary person and had a pretty much unsuccessful professional life.Now that I look back in the past.. My life today is clearly the consequence of decisions I took early in my life..Everyone relates with this fact..The point here is that the decisions we took were good for us or not..As far as my failed track record is concerned I have been a average person,with lot of failures ..Actually I donot have much to tell or say about success because I never felt it..How disspointing is that..Ya it is very very dissapointing or I should say its heart breaking...as far as I am concerned...but over the years I realised at different phases of life we have to take decisions that affect our personal and professional life..This is true ..but this is also true that we have to make although small decisions or rather choices on daily basis as well..They also affect us... The consequences of our decisions are sometimes positive and sometimes negative..
"With positive outcomes we donot become any changed person ,we are still the same deep within if the outcome comes negative...but we start defining our ownselves with the outcomes of decisions we took..."
People judge us by the outcomes of our decisions all our lives..We start believing their judgements..
Everything goes pretty well if somehow our decisions come out to be successful ,we are labeled as successful , intelligent and extraordinary ,till any of our decisions results in a huge failure...and people start calling us failure for life..and we as the dumbest creatures of the world.. make it our reality and even stop trying and doing something to improve our situation..
Pretty ordinary people like me whose most of life decisions resulted in failure become so underconfident and insecure that we lose even the simplest decision making powers..We even feel underconfident to choose a perfect dress that suits us ..we need to seek approvals for every thing we do..
"The main reason behind our failed life was not that we took the bad or wrong decisions all the time all our life...but it was lack of self belief and most importantly we always quit in between ,we stopped trying again..we made other people's judgments our reality..we were weak, we were introvert and we were underconfident too..but the thing that stopped us from moving forward was we ourselves..we only proved all our decisions were wrong because once facing failure at any particular point we simply stopped ,we did not thought of any alternate ways to restart..we did not look for other plans to make things work..It was all our own weaknesses that were totally responsible for our failed life ..our wrong decisions can delay our success but we decided to quit and that is why we failed...We ourselves gave up on ourselves that was the reason of our failed and a pretty average life today and not our decisions.."
Nobody can 100% be sure about the outcome of any decision ,so in the fear of a negative outcome or even after getting a failure we just can not stop..moving ahead...These are really big blunders we do to ourselves if we simply stop..and then as time passes we are only left with regrets..that why we didn't give ourselves another chance...
So ,Please I want to request you all reading that please donot stop in between, donot stop chasing your dreams..you will not be successful all the time, all your decisions might not be fruitful..but please donot give up...once life passes like this we will not be able to rewind anything..Whatever you want to do ,start now,own your mistakes and decisions ...keep improving..Success is assured..😊😊😊😊
You can also go through the below post to that describes reasons of failure in life👇🏻👇🏻
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/failures-and-success-in-life.htmlhttps://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/failures-and-success-in-life.html
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/we-fail-because-we-are-never-driven-by.html
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/07/we-fail-because-we-are-never-driven-by.html
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