Why are we waiting for something to go terribly wrong with us??

Why are we waiting for something to go terribly  wrong  with us??

Namaste everyone ,

One  thing that disturbs me badly is.. why  we ordinary people  are not able to make a new start ,why are we so complacent  about ourselves..hum apne liye kuch karna kab start karenge.. kya hum kuch bahut galat hone ka wait kar rahne hain.. what are we waiting  for??"Are we waiting  for something to go terribly wrong??" Something very rude ,very insulting ,very demeaning.. reminding us of being worthless,fit for nothing...with no financial stability..no bank balance nowhere to go,as we become like ,we can not stand for a single day without others..  the list is endless...or we will try taking very very  little steps everyday for ourselves.
Take a simple example most people donot start working out or focussing on their health before they get real fat or their sugar levels go up or they start suffering from some disease...

Doing some thing that we love to do,we like..we feel happy about...we  feel complete doing... this is not the case that what we will  start to do  will start giving results  immediately... we will start earning  today itself  if we  are  doing it for financial  independence.. or  simply for feeling  fresh  and healthy.. goals can be different .... but we have to start... how much silly stupid senseless it may appear...but we have to make a start ,a new beginning..

That day should be today.. that time should be now...but gathering the courage is difficult  I know  I understand ,I have felt that.. we donot know the right direction to move ... initially even if we start,we can fail.i also failed..10 to 12 times..and finally I stopped  trying  in that particular  direction..did not do anything for months,  believing  that am not meant to do anything special or worthy for myself...Although I strongly believe  that I always give my best for others around me..but when ever it was  something  about myself I was not able to do anything..mere pass apne liye na hi time hai na motivation..
Over the years I have realised that even if want to do anything we are not fully equipped  to make a start..neither resources nor confidence..and moreover even if talk  about doing something new , even our closed ones feel disinterested ,  because of our past track record of failing most of the time...but the thing is without preparation,  we can not even pass a simple test..then how can we expect  to do great  without any proper  knowledge, practice and confidence and moreover we have left our studies  years ago..did not upgrade ourselves  for anything, never focused  on self grooming, self development or atleast having a hobby..These are the reasons for the failure  that we are facing today  , the main reason  being the lack of right attitude..no matter what ,just make a start..start learning something  new.. start

with making little changes in your daily schedule..so that you can atleast have 2 to 3 hours for ourselves...and then practice  practice  and practice , be consistent and patient and consistency  and patience is the key here...please ,please do not focus on results initially. it may take time.. but we all will be successful  for sure...😊😊