Walking away from a failed relationship...
Namaste everyone
We are ordinary people and never even had enough guts to really express our feelings to the world...or even to our closed family members..We are the typical introvert types...I personally feel this is nothing to feel sorry or feel underconfident about it..
This was our nature..we were never good at expressing what we really feel and were never able to ask for what we really wanted....
But one thing we were always sure of, "We always have been pure and totally committed to our relationships..."
I was never able to find answers to questions of relationships failures..of people who were once deeply involved and committed or may be appeared so..or were fooled or were rather in a relationship for some selfish reasons.....No body can guarantee the success or failure of relationships,if any one of the person in the relationship has something fishy or any selfish motive for coming into a relationship...
Most importantly the failure of relationships can be clearly attributed to the fact that one of partner has no intentions left to nurture the relationship and other partner being emotionally more attached continues to give more than 100% to balance the deficit created by the other uninterested partner.
The thing is weaker person in a relationship who somehow wants to continue the relationship because of being truly involved and never had enough courage to walk away ....
Walking away is never easy for weak people because their feelings are absolutely true..and moreover they feel so underconfident about themselves that they are not able to handle rejections ...
Walking away and getting over a relatioship that failed definitely requires courage beyond words...specially for people who even have failed professional lives as well..
The main point here is for walking away from a relationship that failed due to whatever reasons, you once felt as if that relationship was your only world and you never imagined life beyond that...
The only way for walking away is through some kind of distraction ..The distraction is the saviour here...otherwise we will get overwhelmed with emotions and memories from the past that were actually fake and meaningless..Actually when our love changes into an addiction, we also do not come to know unless the other person shows his or her true colors..Most importantly we ordinary people keep on giving more and more chances even after multiple betrayals and insults...
In addition to that we ordinary ones are so so committed and invested so much of our lives and emotions that walking away or getting over it seems impossible..
I know totally getting over anything to which we are so much emotionally involved requires great deal of motivation and self belief...Starting life all over again without someone whom you disillusioned as your life is of course very difficult..
Dear readers , Please do not continue any relationship because of any of your own emotional weaknesses..Be true to yourself..stop compromising your self respect for selfish and fake relationships...They donot deserve your lifelong true and pure emotions..It's not worth it..Life is important.. and people that truly love you unconditionally should be part of it and definitely not those for whom you are fulfilling some of their vested interests...Those people for whom your emotions never had any vàlue..never respected you never trusted you..should never be part of your lives..
Start finding ways , start investing in yourself, start giving yourself love and respect you truly deserve..Donot let others define your worth on the basis of a failed relationship...
Losing a person who truly loves you is a loss that can not be filled easily..but you didn't lose any body, the relationship was definitely not true..It was fake and never deserved your true and pious feelings..It is definitely the loss of the person who despite of being in a relationship doesn't give his or her 100%...and was never truly committed...
We are ordinary people and never even had enough guts to really express our feelings to the world...or even to our closed family members..We are the typical introvert types...I personally feel this is nothing to feel sorry or feel underconfident about it..
This was our nature..we were never good at expressing what we really feel and were never able to ask for what we really wanted....
But one thing we were always sure of, "We always have been pure and totally committed to our relationships..."
I was never able to find answers to questions of relationships failures..of people who were once deeply involved and committed or may be appeared so..or were fooled or were rather in a relationship for some selfish reasons.....No body can guarantee the success or failure of relationships,if any one of the person in the relationship has something fishy or any selfish motive for coming into a relationship...
Most importantly the failure of relationships can be clearly attributed to the fact that one of partner has no intentions left to nurture the relationship and other partner being emotionally more attached continues to give more than 100% to balance the deficit created by the other uninterested partner.
The thing is weaker person in a relationship who somehow wants to continue the relationship because of being truly involved and never had enough courage to walk away ....
Walking away is never easy for weak people because their feelings are absolutely true..and moreover they feel so underconfident about themselves that they are not able to handle rejections ...
Walking away and getting over a relatioship that failed definitely requires courage beyond words...specially for people who even have failed professional lives as well..
The main point here is for walking away from a relationship that failed due to whatever reasons, you once felt as if that relationship was your only world and you never imagined life beyond that...
The only way for walking away is through some kind of distraction ..The distraction is the saviour here...otherwise we will get overwhelmed with emotions and memories from the past that were actually fake and meaningless..Actually when our love changes into an addiction, we also do not come to know unless the other person shows his or her true colors..Most importantly we ordinary people keep on giving more and more chances even after multiple betrayals and insults...
In addition to that we ordinary ones are so so committed and invested so much of our lives and emotions that walking away or getting over it seems impossible..
I know totally getting over anything to which we are so much emotionally involved requires great deal of motivation and self belief...Starting life all over again without someone whom you disillusioned as your life is of course very difficult..
Dear readers , Please do not continue any relationship because of any of your own emotional weaknesses..Be true to yourself..stop compromising your self respect for selfish and fake relationships...They donot deserve your lifelong true and pure emotions..It's not worth it..Life is important.. and people that truly love you unconditionally should be part of it and definitely not those for whom you are fulfilling some of their vested interests...Those people for whom your emotions never had any vàlue..never respected you never trusted you..should never be part of your lives..
Start finding ways , start investing in yourself, start giving yourself love and respect you truly deserve..Donot let others define your worth on the basis of a failed relationship...
Losing a person who truly loves you is a loss that can not be filled easily..but you didn't lose any body, the relationship was definitely not true..It was fake and never deserved your true and pious feelings..It is definitely the loss of the person who despite of being in a relationship doesn't give his or her 100%...and was never truly committed...
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