Life is not perfect but life is precious...
Today I am quite depressed after seeing news of suicide of actor Sushant singh Rajput.. yeh nahi hona chahiye tha.. I donot know him personally but liked him as an actor and also used to follow him on Instagram.. Nobody knows what he was going through in his mind.. because his superficial life appeared very attractive to everybody.. but there is no doubt that some thing was terribly wrong..that forced him to take such a drastic step ...
What is our perception of life..everybody wants a happy ,go lucky life ..sabko ek perfect life chahiye..par life is never perfect..it is our wrong perception that life is perfect for others and not for us..we donot even know what others are going through .. now days most people donot even know what there closest family members are going through...pata nahi kis cheez ke peeche bhag rahen hain hum sab,humein khud nahi pata..Apne mind made perceptions ko jo mostly real bhi nahi hoti unhen sach manke .. most of us feel depressed all the time..,kyunki kuch achieve karna hai sabko..ek never ending competition mein hain..hum sab..yeh competition unhealthy hai,kyunki yeh hum khud se compete nahi kar rahe ,apne aap ko improve karne ki koshish nahi kar rahe..we are just trying to be better than others..that is why we are bound to fail and we feel disappointed.. we feel rejected..its a never ending process.. how others look at us ,how they judge us,what irrelevant comments they pass upon us ..they donot even know what we are going through.. that is unimportant, believe me that is unimportant..but the problem here is why we react to or even believe their judgement ..and sometimes make it our reality.. from here exact problem begins..these judgements of other have devastating effects on our self confidence and esteem..
I personally feel we ordinary people are not definitely that strong to remain unaffected ..of course everybody gets disturbed by any kind of negativity they feel about themselves..in the eyes of others..but we have to choose not to react.. or be effected..because our life is our responsibility ,we are not only responsible for ourselves but also for our family members and loved ones... we just cannot take any drastic step like ending our lives or doing any kind of harm to ourselves.
We can be ordinary but we can not be irresponsible ..Ending life is no solution... Even if we have lost interest in our own lives ,we have to live for our loved ones..we can not be this selfish.."Please please please I request everybody who is feeling depressed or low for any damn reason...please donot harm yourselves...it is definitely not the solution,just have a thought that ending your life will no way solve the problem you are facing..this too shall pass..Please donot allow a weak moment to overpower you ..."
If you can not do it for yourself ,do it for your family,for people who love you ,donot be soo.. selfish, stop living for yourselves.. you donot find it worth it , live for your loved ones think about them before taking any wrong steps...Life is precious..think of people who donot even have things atleast you have..
Make a new start..things will start falling in place...sab theek ho jayega..everything will be alright...that's for sure..I truly believe in this...😊😊😊
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