Namaste everyone,
I personally find it very difficult to say what I really feel..It must be the case with many other introvert, simple and ordinary people like me..
Reasons for this are manifold..
Firstly we were not confident and vocal enough to express what we really feel and want in life to anybody..
I personally find it very difficult to say what I really feel..It must be the case with many other introvert, simple and ordinary people like me..
Reasons for this are manifold..
Firstly we were not confident and vocal enough to express what we really feel and want in life to anybody..
Secondly ,we being ordinary choose not to say what we felt because we never ever want to hurt anybody even unintentionally...It took me years to realize not hurting others was definitely my strength and that was of course related to my habit of not speaking and expressing too much...What others will feel was always in my mind..
But somehow you always have experiences in life that tell you mostly people around us never even bothered about how others are feeling and intentionally or unintentionally speak things that can hurt other people to the core..
If being an extrovert somehow means to hurt people without being hesitant and even giving a second thought of realising the consequences of the words spoken I don’t want to be an extrovert..My simplest ordinary life will outweigh this audacity of some people who easily hurt people..sometimes even their own loved ones..
How people become insensitive to other person's feelings is still a mystery for ordinary people like me..Although we were not that successful all our lives but somehow we were gifted enough to be filled with lots of humility, care,respect and empathy for others..These were the only things that I can be proud of ..but the truth of life is that they donot earn you a single penny..
Although we never have had enough courage to express our feelings to others..We actually never even accepted what are we exactly feelings..We also kept on ignoring our own feelings that too for years altogether...We never acknowledged or even responded properly to our own desires and dreams ....because obviously we felt like we are unsuccessful, unworthy and incompetent to achieve what we really dream or want to achieve...And mostly we always had the fear of failure far before even trying or giving it a shot..We always were the underconfident and insecure ones ..that was definitely the reason of our pretty unsuccessful and purposeless lives..It is truth..we have to accept it and move forward..
How people become insensitive to other person's feelings is still a mystery for ordinary people like me..Although we were not that successful all our lives but somehow we were gifted enough to be filled with lots of humility, care,respect and empathy for others..These were the only things that I can be proud of ..but the truth of life is that they donot earn you a single penny..
Although we never have had enough courage to express our feelings to others..We actually never even accepted what are we exactly feelings..We also kept on ignoring our own feelings that too for years altogether...We never acknowledged or even responded properly to our own desires and dreams ....because obviously we felt like we are unsuccessful, unworthy and incompetent to achieve what we really dream or want to achieve...And mostly we always had the fear of failure far before even trying or giving it a shot..We always were the underconfident and insecure ones ..that was definitely the reason of our pretty unsuccessful and purposeless lives..It is truth..we have to accept it and move forward..
Dear readers, Please first acknowledge your dreams ,thoughts and feelings to your own conscience.. then only you will be able to say what you feel and want to the world and people around...There is no way out..Accept your weaknesses and work on your strength..Sharpen your skills..Keep yourself busy in things you love to do..Please don't judge yourself, be little biased towards your own dreams..I am definitely not telling to be selfish in anyway but working on your dreams ,taking time for yourself is not at all acting selfish..Start to dream...what you really wanted to be and stop being the person you became with time with no personal choices or voice...☺
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