Handling rejections in Life...
Namaste everyone,
We all are living a social life,with people around us..so many things are happening around us on daily basis with each passing moment....
Namaste everyone,
We all are living a social life,with people around us..so many things are happening around us on daily basis with each passing moment....
Multiple thoughts are in our heads going on simultaneously....
Some things work out for us ,some don't..Some people like us ,some don't..We like some..and dislike some others..We want something but get something else mostly..We love very few and very very few love us..We are really important to very few..and similarly for us also very few are actually important....We expect something ,get something unexpected..With happiness ,sorrows, failures and very little success , life goes on and on. Days pass ,months pass and so does years...
Some things work out for us ,some don't..Some people like us ,some don't..We like some..and dislike some others..We want something but get something else mostly..We love very few and very very few love us..We are really important to very few..and similarly for us also very few are actually important....We expect something ,get something unexpected..With happiness ,sorrows, failures and very little success , life goes on and on. Days pass ,months pass and so does years...
One very important realization that I had as a result of my own purposeless ordinary and non aspirational life is with all the chaos going on in life ,we all some how continue..but.. but..but..the thing that really derails our spirit to live a normal life are rejections...
Rejections,be it in our love life ,in our professional life ,be it in academics..be it in any thing...that matters for us...it is really hard to absorb...
Nobody likes to be rejected...It feels as such an insult that it totally shatters our self esteem and confidence...We feel unworthy...disspointed..lost...It definitely hits hard...It shatters our own belief that, We can also achieve something..We can also dream..Dreams do come true...
Mostly when we get rejected we donot want to face the world..Mostly with ordinary people handling rejection is definitely a total disaster..All our fears appear to come true...All our fears that stopped us all our lives from doing what we really wanted to achieve, start appearing to be absolutely true..Its not easy...
We tried hard..We expected something for ourselves..We expected to fulfill our dream for the first time in life..We are ordinary people ...Facing rejection is not easy for us or anybody in this world...
I know it is very easy to preach that we have to start again ,we can not lose hope..we have to work much more harder..but "I am really falling short of words to explain the worst feelings of getting rejected and that too multiple times..I am finding it damn difficult to get over it.."
Dear readers, Its not that rejections are not common, we all get rejected in one thing or the other..and we all do carry on as well..but without anything substantial that we can relate to or I should say without anything that belongs to us or is purely our own achievement continue to follow your dream is teally difficult..It is a ferocious mental struggle..that we ordinary people continue to battle all our lives..😕😕 I know these feelings of rejection are not easy to handle..Rejections are demotivating to the extent that they have definitely stopped many many deserving and talented people from following their dream..But we have chosen not to stop ,to carry on..I know it is becoming more and more difficult with each rejection that we get..but somehow we will gather all the shattered pieces of our dreams and continue to follow our dream..which is important to us..
You can read this post for the importance of our dream in our lifes..my-dream-is-important-to-me.html
You can also go through my below post about how long we should wait to get success 👇👇how-long-we-should-wait-to-get-success.html
Rejections,be it in our love life ,in our professional life ,be it in academics..be it in any thing...that matters for us...it is really hard to absorb...
Nobody likes to be rejected...It feels as such an insult that it totally shatters our self esteem and confidence...We feel unworthy...disspointed..lost...It definitely hits hard...It shatters our own belief that, We can also achieve something..We can also dream..Dreams do come true...
Mostly when we get rejected we donot want to face the world..Mostly with ordinary people handling rejection is definitely a total disaster..All our fears appear to come true...All our fears that stopped us all our lives from doing what we really wanted to achieve, start appearing to be absolutely true..Its not easy...
We tried hard..We expected something for ourselves..We expected to fulfill our dream for the first time in life..We are ordinary people ...Facing rejection is not easy for us or anybody in this world...
I know it is very easy to preach that we have to start again ,we can not lose hope..we have to work much more harder..but "I am really falling short of words to explain the worst feelings of getting rejected and that too multiple times..I am finding it damn difficult to get over it.."
Dear readers, Its not that rejections are not common, we all get rejected in one thing or the other..and we all do carry on as well..but without anything substantial that we can relate to or I should say without anything that belongs to us or is purely our own achievement continue to follow your dream is teally difficult..It is a ferocious mental struggle..that we ordinary people continue to battle all our lives..😕😕 I know these feelings of rejection are not easy to handle..Rejections are demotivating to the extent that they have definitely stopped many many deserving and talented people from following their dream..But we have chosen not to stop ,to carry on..I know it is becoming more and more difficult with each rejection that we get..but somehow we will gather all the shattered pieces of our dreams and continue to follow our dream..which is important to us..
You can read this post for the importance of our dream in our lifes..my-dream-is-important-to-me.html
You can also go through my below post about how long we should wait to get success 👇👇how-long-we-should-wait-to-get-success.html
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