Namaste everyone,
Today I thought of writing my blog post while I was feeling quite low..It was not at all related to others.. Actually most of the times other people's behaviour is responsible for pissing us off..or sometimes things do not go as we plan or expect..or even sometimes really unexpected problems arise that are totally unanticipated..
On day to day basis we have to tackle life as it comes..but very often there are days ,when we get up ,we somehow start feeling low and disappointed for no obvious reasons..We sometimes feel bored and irritated with the monotony of our daily routines also..
Most importantly we always relate our mood with other people's behaviour towards ourselves or their reactions to particular situations in our day to day lives that donot go in tandem with what we feel..Nobody's thinking will match 100% to somebody else no matter how close he or she may be to us..
We give the key to our happiness in the hands of others..If others treat us well or appreciate us or act in ways we want them to or do things that we like or somehow please us..we feel comfortable and happy..but mostly people around us and in most people's life donot meet expectations...and we all feel entangled in loops of sadness and start feeling low or depressed...
We are ordinary people and feeling low ,sad, annoyed or getting irritated easily is definitely happening to all of us on some day or the other..that is natural..we are not perfect..
The thing is mindset of others making us happy itself is totally flawed, because how can others decide what things will really please us to the core..Decisions are definitely ours ...but because of our own insecurities and low will power we allow people to control our minds and emotions easily...and that results in disturbing our mental peace..
Others controlling us and playing with our emotions is not their strength but our own weakness..that we have get rid of immediately.. Confidence building and fighting our own insecurities can only protect us from this social thing that is allowing others to somehow control the weak ordinary ones..
Ordinary people being under confident are easily controlled by others emotionally because they are not self confident enough and seeking aporovals for little little things..
How can others easily disturb our mental peace and make us feel sad or annoyed?
The answer is straightforward because we feel mentally weak and insecure..we suffer from a lot of negative complexes , we are pretty much dependent on others emotionally..we can not manage on our own emotionally and we need others socially or emotionally or financially..
What I strongly feel is we are expecting people to act and behave the way we want them to ,in this stupid process we are actually giving them the power to control us with the outcome of their actions..If rhey act according to our thought process, the way we like it we are pleased or I should say our ego is satisfied..but we things donot go as we plan we start feeling annoyed , irritated and unhappy..The catch here is in this exercise of controlling others we are actually getting controlled..Think about it ..Isn't it so..🤔🤔🤔
Today I thought of writing my blog post while I was feeling quite low..It was not at all related to others.. Actually most of the times other people's behaviour is responsible for pissing us off..or sometimes things do not go as we plan or expect..or even sometimes really unexpected problems arise that are totally unanticipated..
On day to day basis we have to tackle life as it comes..but very often there are days ,when we get up ,we somehow start feeling low and disappointed for no obvious reasons..We sometimes feel bored and irritated with the monotony of our daily routines also..
Most importantly we always relate our mood with other people's behaviour towards ourselves or their reactions to particular situations in our day to day lives that donot go in tandem with what we feel..Nobody's thinking will match 100% to somebody else no matter how close he or she may be to us..
We give the key to our happiness in the hands of others..If others treat us well or appreciate us or act in ways we want them to or do things that we like or somehow please us..we feel comfortable and happy..but mostly people around us and in most people's life donot meet expectations...and we all feel entangled in loops of sadness and start feeling low or depressed...
We are ordinary people and feeling low ,sad, annoyed or getting irritated easily is definitely happening to all of us on some day or the other..that is natural..we are not perfect..
The thing is mindset of others making us happy itself is totally flawed, because how can others decide what things will really please us to the core..Decisions are definitely ours ...but because of our own insecurities and low will power we allow people to control our minds and emotions easily...and that results in disturbing our mental peace..
Others controlling us and playing with our emotions is not their strength but our own weakness..that we have get rid of immediately.. Confidence building and fighting our own insecurities can only protect us from this social thing that is allowing others to somehow control the weak ordinary ones..
Ordinary people being under confident are easily controlled by others emotionally because they are not self confident enough and seeking aporovals for little little things..
How can others easily disturb our mental peace and make us feel sad or annoyed?
The answer is straightforward because we feel mentally weak and insecure..we suffer from a lot of negative complexes , we are pretty much dependent on others emotionally..we can not manage on our own emotionally and we need others socially or emotionally or financially..
What I strongly feel is we are expecting people to act and behave the way we want them to ,in this stupid process we are actually giving them the power to control us with the outcome of their actions..If rhey act according to our thought process, the way we like it we are pleased or I should say our ego is satisfied..but we things donot go as we plan we start feeling annoyed , irritated and unhappy..The catch here is in this exercise of controlling others we are actually getting controlled..Think about it ..Isn't it so..🤔🤔🤔
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