Failing the first selftest..all the time..

Failing the first selftest..all the time..

Namaste everyone..

Whenever we think of starting something new.. jab bhi kuch naya karne ka sochte hain.. hamara mind kya games khelta hai  hamare sath ... and apni is nai soch ko jo of course  abhi budding stage mei hi hoti hai.. sabse pahle  hum khud ke mind ke self test mei  hi  99% of the times fail kar dete hain.. kuch bhi naya kar pana kabhi bhi easy nai hota..apni comfort zone se bhar nikalna padta hai.. usse bhi pahle apne khud ke  mind mei , jo judgements chal rai hoti hain ,jo  mostly negative hi hoti hain.. un sab ko sideline karna padta hai.. jo kar pana hamare jaise ordinary  logon ke liye aasan nai hota .. maybe because hamara track record hi aisa raha hota hai..kabhi life  mei kuch achieve  hi nai kiya  hota.. poori zindgai  bus underconfident se ,shy se  bane rahte hain.. pata nai  kyun?? logon ki judgement  toh baad mei aayegi pahle apne aapko khud hi ek 'failure for life' maan ke chalte hain.. itna darte hain logon ki judgement  se jo of course  harsh hi hogi..  bahut kam hi supportive and positive hogi.. but iske liy hum kuch nai kar sakte ..but jo kar sakte hain woh yeh hai ki.. be little soft and supportive  to yourself also.. self pity khate rahna band karna hi padega.. agar sach mei kuch karna hai.. apne self test mei khud ko paas karvana padega..nahi toh aise hi chalte rahenge.. zindgai bhi chalti rahegi.. but hum apne minds mei kahin ruke se , stagnant se.. rah jayenge...
This mindset  is not healthy for anybody mentally nor physically..Something  needs to be done immediately..
We are not doing any good to any one by continuing  in this mental state..Being  like this we  all become easily  irritated , sad ,moody and silent  from within..We have to break this silence  ,we have to come out of the shell low self confidence and sense of unworthiness.. and for this start  feeling joyful of whst you are doing and start now..😊😊