Traits/Qualities of good ordinary people which most of the people lack nowadays..

Traits/Qualities  of good ordinary people...

Namaste everyone,
With all  the Covid-19 negativity going around ..and in addition to that all negative news  that keeps on coming ..this year 2020  so.. far  has given real negative impact to the world mentally as well as financially...
People  were in lockdowns that are now some what relaxed but thing is  how insensitive  we have become  or maybe  we always were... I personally  feel helping people financially  is not the cup of tea for everybody.. all can not even afford that ..and that is  not practical  also  for every one to some extent.. whatever little  we can do is enough..but why can not we as individuals  act as emotional supports for people around us and world around..
Why  most of the people have become insensitive to what others feel or go through???
Most of the ordinary people around us that may have not achieved anything or are not that much successful professionally..but they are really the support systems of our lives but we usually fail to see..or recognize..
Most of us feel low and depressed  for no visible reason.Most of us being very ordinary are not comfortable  expressing ourselves about what we feel .. that (something may be minor only) is bothering  us back in our minds...We definitely  lack emotional connect with people around.. many a times I personally  feel we ourselves  are able to see or feel that somebody around us is not comfortable  or he or she she is low today..but I  am not able to clearly understand why people fail to see something wrong going on with us..Or we  the ordinary ones are  so good in acting ,in faking smiles and pretending  to be normal all the time..Can not say ... such a strange thing.. Some people simply donot bother at all..It seems ,"sari duniya ka theka humne le rakha hai😏😏
I know this is a little exaggeration  but why can not we the simple ordinary ones  donot get there  fair share of attention ,only because we never say or express.. we never get angry , we never shout or scream..we never make others realise their  mistakes..,we never make others realise  that how badly they hurt us...they simple statements may be unintentional   sometimes act as a  insult.. and make us realise how unworthy  we are..
The thing is  who gave them this right to treat us like this ,we ourselves..because jab hum khud ko least importance  dete hain toh log bhi aisa hi karenge..
We are using our strengths against our ownselves..humble hona adjusting hona, understanding hona ,sabke liye respectful  hona,sabke bare mein  acha wish karna , sabki help ke liye always 
 ready rahna..yeh hamari qualities  hain..but  at times we forget about ourselves.. I am not at all  telling anybody to become selfish..but sable liye strong and apne liye weakest ban jana  bhi sahi nahi hai..agar hum  apne liye kuch nahi karenge toh koi bhi hamare liye kuch  nahi karega..and yeh sirf hamari personal ya professional  growth ki baat nahi hai.. it is very much related to our health  also.. mostly  people  fail to recognize  that this feeling low is taking a toll on our health also.. so  please  develop a routine ,do something that you really enjoy doing...  learn something new..come out of your comfort  zone..it is important..sooner or later we will understand.. soo why not start now..