Regressive thought process of Indian housewives?

Namaste everyone,

In India About 86% women who experienced violence never sought help, and 77% of the victims did not even mention the incident(s) to anyone..

During the first four phases of the COVID-19-related lockdown, Indian women filed more domestic violence complaints than recorded in a similar period in the last 10 years.(source, The hindu)

 Don't know what is wrongwith with  our own society and people around us...People usually  take for granted others  without whom they can not even survive... They usually  undermine the importance of people who are actually  the backbone of their lives...Although these people work for us in the back end  but we fail to recognize their importance because they are willingly available 24/7..These are our greatest Indian housewives..(I am using the word Indian here  because am not aware of any other cultures or people other than my own  country)..

I am myself a housewife  for about 14 years....I agree to this very fact that housewives tend to tolerate things  that in normal cases nobody will tolerate.. and continue the relationship  tolerating verbal and in some cases even physical abuse.The following list might summarize it:

1.First and most important reason of tolerating abuse is their  kids..They donot  want to  give their children  a disturbed childhood..

2.The  fear of society is so much in them , they continue to tolerate  abuse in the closed doors of their homes. 

3.The fear of hurting their parents and further future of their siblings stops them from taking a progressive step.

4.They are not financially independent, so they find it difficult or rather impossible to leave their abusive husband or family.

5.They are  not confident and qualified enough to make a living for themselves and their kids..

6.In some cases housewives  even are willing to forgive infidelity done by their male partners ,just for the sake of  continuing and obviously for the fear and shame of society..Most importantly it is done for their children..

The above thought process exists there is no doubt in it..It is definitely regressive...I always thought of running a help center for such women  so that I can somehow help them to come out of this very situation..But unfortunately  neither I am in some Goverment position nor have enough money to run such an organization...That is a different  matter..but my point here is when we housewives will gather enough courage to stop any kind of abuse against  us..For how long women will keep on giving excuses  of being incompetent, weak,insecure and not being financially independent  as the reasons to tolerate any kind of abuse be it verbal or physical🤔🤔

Dear readers, especially housewives  ,Please donot have a regressive mindset..Today you might feel insecure , incapable and incompetent to face the world but that noway gives others the right to abuse you  in any possible way..Raise your voice..You will get the solutions once you start looking for it..Donot compromise your pride and self respect for ruthless abusers..Start living for yourselves..Give yourself  a chance..Things will work out..First free yourself if you find the situation is no way tolerable..Your kids and family will also eventually  understand . It is noway justified to tolerate  inhumane things..Sought help..Raise your voice..😇😇🙏🙏