Namaste everyone,
Expectations are the real culprit in any relationship.. As long as our expectations are met or I should say we keep on meeting other person's expectations everything goes well in a relationship... Nobody even bothers or even pays attention to the fact that many a times people's expectations from their partners are unreal or way too much for a normal person..More importantly people expect things from their partners ,which they are not even willing to reciprocate...
Relationship are so important for every human being in this world that sometimes we are ready to even compromise our priorities, our interests,our ego,our career and sometimes even our self respect for the sake of continuing the relationship...
Giving our best in a relationship and sacrificing our own priorities is common in a healthy relationship ...After all a relationship is all about love , care ,respect,trust and sacrifice...Most people do it willingly and happily...
The problem arises when we expect all the wrong things from the wrong person...Mostly ordinary people are very wrong in judging people.. Expectations doesnot make any sense in the following cases:
The list is endless.. Evidently the thing is expecting wrong things from the wrong person....The success of a relationship is dependent on both the partners..not one..If one is willing to go beyond limits for the success of a relationship but for the other, relationship itself is not of much importance..or rather takes it so lightly or for granted..that relationship can be dragged but not for a longer period...and is definitely not healthy for the one who is totally involved or I should say emotionally dependent on the realationship..
Dear readers,Relationships are a thing to be cherished and loved.
Relationships are not burdens..I personally feel they are the gifts of God for us..without them we feel incomplete and definitely lonely..we should nurture them with love ,respect and care..but definitely not at the cost of losing our selfrespect.. The total ignorance of one of the partner or using people in relationships is not at all acceptable...
Expectations are the real culprit in any relationship.. As long as our expectations are met or I should say we keep on meeting other person's expectations everything goes well in a relationship... Nobody even bothers or even pays attention to the fact that many a times people's expectations from their partners are unreal or way too much for a normal person..More importantly people expect things from their partners ,which they are not even willing to reciprocate...
Relationship are so important for every human being in this world that sometimes we are ready to even compromise our priorities, our interests,our ego,our career and sometimes even our self respect for the sake of continuing the relationship...
Giving our best in a relationship and sacrificing our own priorities is common in a healthy relationship ...After all a relationship is all about love , care ,respect,trust and sacrifice...Most people do it willingly and happily...
The problem arises when we expect all the wrong things from the wrong person...Mostly ordinary people are very wrong in judging people.. Expectations doesnot make any sense in the following cases:
- If we expect true love from a person who doesn't even love you..
- If we expect truth from a person who lies so easily all the time..
- If we expect loyalty from a person who has cheated earlier also...
- If you expect a person to give you the first priority who never ever gave you any priority..
- If we expect respect from a person who has disrespected you publicly..
- If you expect care and attention from a person who is least bothered about you..
- If you expect a person to understand your silence if he or she never even bothered about what you told them directly..
- If you expect a person to stand by your side who was never present in your difficult times...
- If you expect emotional support from a person who is not even bothered about how are you..or how are you feeling?
- If you expect a phone call from a person who never even bothers to reply to your message or even never calls back even after seeing your missed call..
- If you expect a person to share his or her real feelings with you but he himself never shares even little little things with you..
- If you expect a person to not have any secrets between you and him but has himself kept everything password protected..
The list is endless.. Evidently the thing is expecting wrong things from the wrong person....The success of a relationship is dependent on both the partners..not one..If one is willing to go beyond limits for the success of a relationship but for the other, relationship itself is not of much importance..or rather takes it so lightly or for granted..that relationship can be dragged but not for a longer period...and is definitely not healthy for the one who is totally involved or I should say emotionally dependent on the realationship..
Dear readers,Relationships are a thing to be cherished and loved.
Relationships are not burdens..I personally feel they are the gifts of God for us..without them we feel incomplete and definitely lonely..we should nurture them with love ,respect and care..but definitely not at the cost of losing our selfrespect.. The total ignorance of one of the partner or using people in relationships is not at all acceptable...
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