Believe in yourself,Failures do not define us..

Believe in yourself

Namaste everyone,
Failures  do not define us..This is absolutely true..but we are definitely  not courageous enough to make this our reality..We have been ordinary  underconfident ,emotionally weak and fragile individuals who never believed  in ourselves and nor our own dreams..
All our lives we have been defining ourselves  on the basis of our failures and for this I must thank our pretty bad track record as far as success in life is concerned ,be it emotionally  or even professionally..  We were never surprised  by knowing that people around  us also share our mindset and  define us by our failures..We ushould not get annoyed about all this because we ourselves used to think that we are not good for any thing..
All our lives we  believed that any kind of success  or satisfaction  of accomplishment  is not meant for us..It was us only who chose to be average and never even dared to dream or rather follow what we really liked or loved to do..All our lives we pacified  ourselves  that success is unachievable  or rather impossible  for us...
We never thought  of first fighting our own mindset to follow our dream...This is also true that may be we have failed multiple  times ,but does that mean that we  are going to fail again...So we shouldn't  try any further..
Even after we ordinary ones somehow  gather courage to move a little forward , we find it very difficult to fight against the mindset of people around us..They find our dream silly ,unimportant  and total waste of time..Because we always presented  such a weak picture of our personality  in front of them. Because of our weaknesses  we allowed other people's  judgements  about us to work against us..But a real person who is really passionate about his or her dream shouldn't  be bothered about this..The thing that really matters in the way of following  a dream for any person in this world is the self belief  that he or she is strong enough  to achieve it and with each passing  day will work harder and harder towards it ..and finally will definitely  achieve  it..
Please stop making other people's  perspectives  your reality..They donot feel how you feel ,they might not know how you felt when you failed..they might not know how passionate  you are about your dream they might not know how important  your dream is for you..
The thing is they have been clearly defining   us on the basis of our failed past..But we are changed individuals now ..our dream is important  to us..and is definitely  not unachievable..We have decided  to take accountability  of our lives..We are responsible  for our dreams ,our dreams are definitely  our reality now.No negativity can stop us  not even the  one in our own minds..
This is also a fact for life that believing  in ourselves is the first step but further we have to keep  confronting for own weaknesses, be it emotional  or something  professional. We have to keep on  updating ourselves , learning new things  and working harder and harder with each passing day..
Dear readers,while writing this most I feel it from my heart ,I am also not a very professionally  succeesful person..I have just began my journey..and somehow strongly believe  that these things that I write are felt by all ordinary people  and thoughts  that I can in some possible  way relate with you all and  if I am able to motivate you in any slightest  possible way I will more then happy.. This is the real mission  of my writings..😇😇
So Just start believing  in yourself and your dream..continue to improve and work on your flaws..but please donot stop midway...otherwise we will prove all people  aroind us true about their  thinkings about us..This is the only way out to pursue what you really dream for..