Why people hurt others??

Why people hurt others??

Namaste  everyone,
Today I had a very strong feeling about "Why people hurt others"..Reasons are really endless..they want to lower other person's  moral, self esteem and confidence. These people openly give certificates for others worth..They hurt other person's dignity without a single thought of how they may have felt at that weak moment..I very well understand that sometimes it can be unintentional or just  said without purpose..but how deeply it impacts  others ,they donot have  an idea about..choose your words before you speak..jaise hum bachon ko unke chote chote achievements  par kitna appreciate  karte hain ,That little pat on the back can make huge differences, hum adults ke sath bhi toh aisa kar sakte hain..par pata nahi kyun nahi karte..the thing is nothing can be done about what others  do or think about us..I know it hurts badly if people think or talk bad about  us..but why we  ordinary  people  start believing  their thinking about us as the ultimate truth of our lives..they donot know what we feel ,they even donot exactly know what is all about  being simple and ordinary,we  people who donot have anything  to brag  about or say..not even a small list of achievements..I accept that we have been like this for years..but not any more, atleast we have started trying.. Verbal abuses or any  kind of demeaning  statements passed against anybody are really detrimental..,people do start feeling low and strongly start believing  them as the truth of their lives. They stop being themselves, they also want to fit in..where they donot , they pretend to be people they are not..just because they started to believe  what others said about them..we  being ordinary become so weak mentally  with zero confidence that we can not take any decisions  regarding anything from even what to wear ,what suits us, what hair style to have,what to say ..we stop talking to strangers, we can not make friends  from the fear  of being judged..we fail to express..we fail to do anything ,we start feeling as ultimate losers who can never do anything good for others nor for their  ownselves..
This is really disappointing and saddening..but now what..think about it..where it all started..just from some  insensitive comments of people towards  others without thinking  of emotional or rare physical consequences..Soo.. please think before you speak anything bad about others not even in a fun way..
1.Let's be appreciative to each other.
2.Let's support each other in whichever possible way..
3.Let's not judge each other..
4.Let's be joyful and make others  around us too😊😊.
5.Let's help others to follow their dreams..
6.Let's share knowledge, feeling,happiness and sorrows ..
7.Let's talk ..and reach out..
8.Let's choose to be healthy
emotionally and physically.
9.Let's be little more understanding and loving towards the people around us and towards  ourselves too.
10.Let's be more passionate  towards our own goals or  even hobbies..
11.Let's make this world a better place by making tiny tiny contributions  in which ever possible way..
12.Let's do it  with a smile and confidence ...😊😊😊😊