Importance of financial independence in life.
Namaste everyone,Over all those years of our pretty ordinary lives we did not do anything for self development or anything more or less related to ourselves that was focused on us for our personal ,professional and for that matter spiritual growth..
"Hamara focus hamare upar kabhi nahi tha...bus family, family and family ..we never knew or tried to know anything beyond that.. our lives appear complete...but never were..initially we donot realise.. but slowly gradually we come to know....ki kya kar liya humne apne sath.. kya ban gaye hain hum, emotionally to family pe dependency hoti hi hai.. there is nothing wrong in it.. family is our strength and support.. but jab it comes to financial terms..not initially but with passing years.. we realise that humare paas apna earn kiya toh kuch bhi nahi hai.. over all those years apni sari energies family par laga di..but when it comes to our own bank balance .. we are a big zero.. "
Aisa nahi hai ki humein koi necessities ke liye financial crunch ho gaya hai or something like that.. but hum ordinary se logon ne khud apni financial and emotional freedom ko totally khatam kar diya...aisa maan liya ki financial freedom is not important.. hum ordinary se ,simple se logon ki aisi thinking hoti hai ki ," we are for our family and family mei sabki apni apni responsibility hai.. jismei maine ghar sambhlne ki responsibility badi khush khush li hai... jo kafi hadh tak sahi bhi hota..hai" lekin iske liy apni financial freedom ko compromise karna sahi nahi hai.. financial freedom ka nahi hona is also a very important reason of our low self esteem and of course low confidence.. humein yeh nahi bhoolna chahiye ki financial support is also important and is definitely a way for supporting our family.... Har choti choti cheez buy karne ke liye asking others.. is uncomfortable and most of the time insulting.. it some times leads to different kinds of depression, feelings of no self worth.. and although what we do for our families is priceless.. and nobody else can do it the way we do it.. but still losing financial independence is not a good healthy choice.. in initial years of our lives we take each others financial burdens happily.. without complaints.. but once the other person kabhi gusse mei makes us realise of our expenses.. it is quite insulting..
I am not telling ki everybody is going to have bad experiences..but chances are quite high.. toh why not work for it.. start something.. today .. now is the time.. how much little you will earn, it will give a whole lot of confidence and happiness...😊😊😊👍
You can also further read the below post that describes what I have felt as a consequence of financial dependence..
https://myheartfultalks.blogspot.com/2020/06/consequeces-of-financial-dependence.html
